NOTE TO ALL: spoke to my therapist and we agreed it would be best to put off making the video/photo montage for a month or so (with images and video capture from memorial) - to finish collecting assets for it from people and to grieve a bit more before I have to "relive" while making the sizzle reel of Kai's life. I'll make it in a month-ish. In the meanwhile. Keep sending in media please! I'm collecting it all.