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OBITUARY
On a recent birthday celebration, Charlotte was asked for words of wisdom that she had gained from her life experience. Her response: "Always vote!"She was often found summing everything up with "we are so lucky". Here is her official obituary:Charlotte Dean Cecil Swett Walter died September 15, 2020, in Eugene, Oregon. She was born December 9, 1921, when the national women’s right to vote was new and four years before the zipper... see moreOn a recent birthday celebration, Charlotte was asked for words of wisdom that she had gained from her life experience. Her response: "Always vote!"
She was often found summing everything up with "we are so lucky".
Here is her official obituary:
Charlotte Dean Cecil Swett Walter died September 15, 2020, in Eugene, Oregon. She was born December 9, 1921, when the national women’s right to vote was new and four years before the zipper was invented.
She was the only child of Neil M. Cecil and Irene N. (Tyler) Cecil, delivered in Auburn, Nebraska, by her doctor grandfather. Her youngest years were spent in Oakland, California, and on the construction site of the Old Don Pedro Dam which her engineer father helped build. Most of her growing years were in Modesto, California, where she attended Modesto High School and Modesto Junior College. Then she transferred to complete her bachelor’s degree at Stanford University. Her majors in journalism and psychology were put to good use throughout her life.
After college Char began a career in advertising based first in San Francisco and then in New York City. She changed direction when she met and married Roger D. Swett, whom she met while his World War II Navy ship was dry docked in San Francisco. They settled in Glen Ellyn, Illinois, after Roger became an attorney. She lived for 65 years in the house they purchased together. It was home to their family of five children. When Roger died young, Charlotte faced the challenge of raising those five children on her own. In addition to parenting, during those years Charlotte obtained an MBA from the University of Chicago.
After all the children had grown, a new chapter opened when she married Fredrick R. Walter, a fellow widow. As young retirees, Fred and Char formed a blended family and enjoyed 35 years of life together. After losing Fred, Char moved to Eugene, Oregon to be near two of her children.
Throughout her life, Char valued civic involvement and strove for justice. She pursued these goals through involvement in her church and numerous community organizations, including Glen Ellyn Walk-In Ministries, Glen Ellyn Food Pantry, League of Women Voters, a local book club, Lydia Circle at Glen Ellyn First United Methodist Church, and numerous others. Wherever Char participated, she focused on improving visual presentation and press presence for the activity. When she arrived in Oregon one of her first activities was to encourage members of her senior community to register as voters.
She will be sorely missed by her children and their spouses: Laurel Swett, Daniel Swett, Katherine Swett and Eugene Rogers, Norman Swett and Natalie Ramier, and Valerie Swett Nigh and Frank Nigh. Also surviving are her eight grandchildren, five great-grandchildren, and the descendants of Fred Walter.
Burial arrangements are private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in Charlotte’s memory to Asbury United Methodist Church, 1090 Berntzen Road, Eugene, OR 97402; or Glen Ellyn Food Pantry, 493 Forest Avenue, Glen Ellyn, IL 60137.
My mom and I met at Grandma Charlotte's house for my dress fitting before my wedding and I was worrying about people being engaged in dancing at our reception. I asked Grandma Charlotte to participate in dancing with Grandpa Fred at our reception because... moreMy mom and I met at Grandma Charlotte's house for my dress fitting before my wedding and I was worrying about people being engaged in dancing at our reception. I asked Grandma Charlotte to participate in dancing with Grandpa Fred at our reception because I knew how much they loved to dance. Except I forgot to ask our DJ to include music that they might be comfortable dancing to. In true Grandma fashion she didn't let the music style stop her. She and Grandpa danced to so many songs and were so fun to watch! When the dancing style changed to a ring of dancers with folks entering the middle to dance, Grandma didn't miss a beat and jumped right in to take her turn in the middle to dance. There aren't a lot of folks in their eighties who feel comfortable taking the dance "stage" in a ring of 20 somethings.
I've always felt like this moment so embodied Grandma. She was willing to do what her family needed, and could enter into situations that were foreign to her with so much grace! Love you Grandma Charlotte! less
Aunt Charlie, as we called her, would always greet us with a cheerful and energetic spirit! As I have grown into somewhat of a family historian, I value the efforts she took across the years to keep the entire Swett clan in touch through letters,... moreAunt Charlie, as we called her, would always greet us with a cheerful and energetic spirit! As I have grown into somewhat of a family historian, I value the efforts she took across the years to keep the entire Swett clan in touch through letters, addresses, and even learning technology! She was an accomplished and amazing lady!
At the Swett Just Coz Reunion in 2019, I was honored to be able to take a photo of four generations! less
In 1985 Charlotte and Fred did a road trip with Mary Nigh (Frank's mom) to meet Valerie, Frank, and Sam in Montana. What fun we had! Sam and Elizabeth Walter were in backpacks, and Gary Walter led us on a fabulous "easy" hike. The moose was... moreIn 1985 Charlotte and Fred did a road trip with Mary Nigh (Frank's mom) to meet Valerie, Frank, and Sam in Montana. What fun we had! Sam and Elizabeth Walter were in backpacks, and Gary Walter led us on a fabulous "easy" hike. The moose was a highlight. Mom always was ready for an adventure! -- Valerie less
"Please accept my very sincere condolences on the passing of your sweet Mother. She was so special to all of us at First UMC and especially those of us who worked with her on her many projects. I was delighted that she continued to call me every... more"Please accept my very sincere condolences on the passing of your sweet Mother. She was so special to all of us at First UMC and especially those of us who worked with her on her many projects. I was delighted that she continued to call me every once in a while from Eugene. She was so dedicated to all that she did throughout her life. She had a big influence on me and I would not be where I am in UMW today without her encouragement. When I was a new member of First Church (in the early 80's) she was constantly telling me I should go to "School of Mission" with UMW. Finally I did and have not stopped. She was right, it was just what I needed. Char is legendary among the leaders of the Glen Ellyn/Wheaton CROP Walk. She got me started going to those committee meetings with her so that I could take over when she moved. But although I do try to help out with the CROP Walk, I do not have her energy or determination. Starting the Glen Ellyn Walk in Ministry was a significant feat and I don't think it would have happened without her. They are still going strong, since, of course, it is a much needed ministry. The first time I met Char was even before I joined First Church. I was a newbie member of League of Women Voters and we were celebrating the 50th anniversary of the Glen Ellyn unit. So I went to interview Char with Adrienne Zarobsky because Char was a founding member. I don't remember what she said about the League, but I remember being very impressed with her energy and spirit. She was wise, tireless, had enormous energy for her causes and seemed to always wear a smile along with her positive attitude." Excerpt from an e-mail sent by Cheryl Peters of First United Methodist Church of Glen Ellyn, Illinois less