Kevin's family created this page to remember, and celebrate his life. Please feel free to leave any stories, funny memories or personal thoughts as to what made Kevin so loved by all. It is these sort of comments which are so helpful to his family in helping them get through this difficult period of... see moreKevin's family created this page to remember, and celebrate his life. Please feel free to leave any stories, funny memories or personal thoughts as to what made Kevin so loved by all. It is these sort of comments which are so helpful to his family in helping them get through this difficult period of time.
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Happy Birthday Finan! Miss this big fella. One of the first guys I met when I started with Pandera Systems. We had some great times when he came to Boston - Kevin loved the clam chowder but he hilariously never ventured past Legal Seafoods. No matter how... moreHappy Birthday Finan! Miss this big fella. One of the first guys I met when I started with Pandera Systems. We had some great times when he came to Boston - Kevin loved the clam chowder but he hilariously never ventured past Legal Seafoods. No matter how many times I tried convincing him to try new spots, he would never budge. "Legal Seafoods is a massive chain restaurant, you can get their clam chowder in any city! There is even one in Ronald Reagan airport!" ahahah. Another great night was my first time in Arlington. Finan was begging that we go to Whitlows for crab legs, so we followed him over and had such a memorable night. I try to go to Whitlows every time I'm down in DC area now. RIP less
You were always one of the kindest people I knew during our time at St. Leo’s and PVI. In junior high, I remember bonding with you over our mutual love for the Space Jam soundtrack (it’s funny to think about it now) and the time you wanted... moreKevin,
You were always one of the kindest people I knew during our time at St. Leo’s and PVI. In junior high, I remember bonding with you over our mutual love for the Space Jam soundtrack (it’s funny to think about it now) and the time you wanted to stand up for me when I was crying in our Personal Finance class because someone had thrown a paper across the cafeteria and it hit my face during spirit week (again, it’s making me laugh thinking about it now). I’ll remember all of the great times and cheering for you at the sidelines of all of you football games but mostly I’ll remember your easy-going, kind-hearted, and gentle spirit. You will be missed by many.
On behalf of myself and my family (the Sewberath Misser’s), we send our most heart-felt condolences to the Finan family and to Kevin’s friends—we are so sorry for your loss. less
I consider myself incredibly fortunate to have known Kevin Finan. Kevin always had a smile on his face and truly had an infectious personality that made everyone around him happier. I’ll forever miss those cathartic work conversations we always had... moreI consider myself incredibly fortunate to have known Kevin Finan. Kevin always had a smile on his face and truly had an infectious personality that made everyone around him happier. I’ll forever miss those cathartic work conversations we always had and his willingness to always try and help that transcended the job. My deepest condolences to Pat and his family. Proof of the old Billy Joel song. less
It was such a shock to hear the news of Kevin’s passing, as he was so full of life and such a positive person. I had the pleasure of working with Kevin at MicroStrategy and saw him make a huge impact on so many people. Kevin definitely made the most... moreIt was such a shock to hear the news of Kevin’s passing, as he was so full of life and such a positive person. I had the pleasure of working with Kevin at MicroStrategy and saw him make a huge impact on so many people. Kevin definitely made the most of his life and he will be greatly missed by everyone who had the opportunity to meet him. My condolences to Pat and the Finan family and may Kevin rest in peace. less
This is still unreal for me. I miss you so much bud.
You were the center of my MicroStrategy universe. Always helping make introductions and going above and beyond trying to cover up for our MicroStrategy friends when they would disappoint. Our time... moreThis is still unreal for me. I miss you so much bud.
You were the center of my MicroStrategy universe. Always helping make introductions and going above and beyond trying to cover up for our MicroStrategy friends when they would disappoint. Our time together at Southport will always be one of my cherished memories. You always had a way to lighten up the conversations with your sense of humor. You loved your lunches especially your ‘client lunches’. I still chuckle remembering when you ordered a Margarita during a client-lunch (Damn Uncle Julio’s).
You were gem of a person Kevin. Your helpfulness and kindness made it so easy for everyone to like you. It was an honor being your friend. Until we meet again.... less
When I think of Kevin, I always smile. He was one of those rare individuals who always brighten up the room. He brought so much joy into our life.
I still remember when Kim and I ran into ex-Redskins player, LaVar Arrington, at a local sports bar in... moreWhen I think of Kevin, I always smile. He was one of those rare individuals who always brighten up the room. He brought so much joy into our life.
I still remember when Kim and I ran into ex-Redskins player, LaVar Arrington, at a local sports bar in Reston, my first instinct was to text him. He showed up right away and he was like a kid in a candy store, talking with LaVar and taking pictures.
Kevin – Rest in peace my friend. I know our paths will cross again like it always did at random spots in Reston Town Center during the past few years. We will talk about life, football and of course, our dogs. Till then, I will still smile every time I think of you! less
It is impossible to put 15 years of thoughts and memories into words. I met Kevin through work and knew right away we would become friends and share many laughs together. When I look at the picture of us in this photo gallery, it brings up so many... moreIt is impossible to put 15 years of thoughts and memories into words. I met Kevin through work and knew right away we would become friends and share many laughs together. When I look at the picture of us in this photo gallery, it brings up so many fond memories of the countless fun and interesting conversations we had throughout the years.
We laughed together, cried together (mostly from laughing too hard), got on each other’s nerves from time to time - but we always had fun together. Each of us would look to bust the other’s chops anytime we could. My all-time favorite was this perfect photobomb of his family photo at World.
I will miss Kevin’s contagious personality, warm smile, and wit. You will be missed but never forgotten. God bless. less
was shocked and saddened to hear the news of Kevin’s passing. It’s been years since we worked together directly but it’s a small world and I would run into Kevin frequently at a local Starbucks. He always had a huge smile and was so kind. We’d... morewas shocked and saddened to hear the news of Kevin’s passing. It’s been years since we worked together directly but it’s a small world and I would run into Kevin frequently at a local Starbucks. He always had a huge smile and was so kind. We’d visit for a few minutes and then be on our way. There are no words to ease the grief and pain of losing a loved one but I pray the memories of his infectious smile, kind nature, amazing sense of humor and his love for dogs (and the Redskins) gets you through this difficult time. May he Rest In Peace. We will miss you Kevin. less
I’m getting ready to head into MicroStrategy World for the first time with out you, and it just doesn’t seem right. We became close 9 years ago when I first started at the company and Tom, you and I would grab lunch every day. We shared a ton... moreKevin,
I’m getting ready to head into MicroStrategy World for the first time with out you, and it just doesn’t seem right. We became close 9 years ago when I first started at the company and Tom, you and I would grab lunch every day. We shared a ton of laughs and developed a friendship beyond work. I still get a kick out of you calling me ‘snot’, or watching you get fired up over typical work stuff. My favorite was watching the pranks you’d play on YOUR new hires.
I always admired and respected your work ethic. It was also impressive how you established relationships that have maintained since your time at MicroStrategy. I’m going to miss you buddy. You made an impact on so many people, including me.
No matter where or when I met Kevin, he always had a huge smile on his face and was such a joy to be around. My prayers and condolences to his family. He will be missed.
It's still unreal that Kevin is gone. He was one of the few people who would call me periodically just to catch up and we would spend WAY too much time gossiping. The fact that he would still reach out said a lot about Kevin - his character and who he... moreIt's still unreal that Kevin is gone. He was one of the few people who would call me periodically just to catch up and we would spend WAY too much time gossiping. The fact that he would still reach out said a lot about Kevin - his character and who he was in this life. He was fun to be around and always kept it real. When the Finan and Wright/Larson gangs were competing for numbers at MicroStrategy, I'm convinced he was trying to join our side and become a Larson sister. We always catch up after MicroStrategy World. He will be missed. less
I've started and restarted this post 7 times now. I honestly am a little lost because Kevin was truly an integral part of my life and I can't even begin to verbalize how much we are going to miss him. I think it's to the point that I haven't really... moreI've started and restarted this post 7 times now. I honestly am a little lost because Kevin was truly an integral part of my life and I can't even begin to verbalize how much we are going to miss him. I think it's to the point that I haven't really processed it and I'm just assuming that my weekly texts/calls will continue. He was always the first person I looked for at work events and was my comfort blanket because truth be told I'm an introvert and he knew it.
I'm not entirely good with words so over the last week I compiled a list of things I wanted to put into an eloquent post but cannot, so here's a few things I think we can all agree to describe him:
Always reliable
Great friend
Dependable
Confidant
Gossip queen
Not afraid to tell you what he thinks
Secret keeping abilities were a hit or miss
Always supportive of each other
ALWAYS willing to help
Always willing to go the extra mile
Extremely hard worker
We'll all really miss you, Kevin.
See ya on the other side... but wait for me because I need you to hang out with me in heaven so I don't have to talk to strangers. less
I don't even know where to start... I can't wrap my mind around this at all. Since we were kids, you've been like a little brother to me. We were always together... You, Pat, Danny, Nick and I... We were like family. There are too many memories... moreKevin,
I don't even know where to start... I can't wrap my mind around this at all. Since we were kids, you've been like a little brother to me. We were always together... You, Pat, Danny, Nick and I... We were like family. There are too many memories to list them all. Our parents would get together for dinner and we would plan all night for how we would convince them to allow a sleepover, then wait until right before they were about to leave and we would all pretend to be asleep, hoping they would just leave us. They knew exactly what we were doing. How about the bloody break through games in your unfinished basement? We would try to gather any blankets or pillows we could find, which ultimately ended up being like 2 or 3 pillows, and we would just punish each other on to the cement floor, or lay each other out, into the insulation. Then we had the famous boxing matches, where we would use our Dad's old boxing gloves. You didn't win unless you bloodied up the other. The intense ping pong games... The baseball games and HR derbies... The "Ice Bowl", played in your back yard on a sheet of ice... Bouncing each other off the trampoline... The Redskins games and parties... Sneaking cigars or our parents liquor... I could literally write a book on the 5 of us. We could have been rich off of a reality TV show!
I know you're reading this right now and laughing! I don't think I will ever come to grip with this, but I do know that from now on, I will watch the Skins a little differently, I will listen to Wu-Tang and Tupac a little differently, and I will be forever grateful for these memories. Until we see each other again, cheers to you my brother. I love you, and make sure you've got break through set up for us up there!
The Finan family, I just wanted to reinforce much of what you are already hearing....the great things about Kevin. I had the privilege of approving Kevin for hire at MicroStrategy and as an employee in our Business Development group, Kevin not only... moreThe Finan family, I just wanted to reinforce much of what you are already hearing....the great things about Kevin. I had the privilege of approving Kevin for hire at MicroStrategy and as an employee in our Business Development group, Kevin not only "delivered the goods" but always did it with a comical smile and attitude. After his and my time at MSTR, we kept in fair touch as our work always made us cross paths. Recently (the past year) Kevin and I worked together on may occasions to build new business opportunities. In fact, I am virtually positive that he and I had his last communication on Friday morning a week ago. Please take this to heart; Kevin ALWAYS had a smile, he ALWAYS was the life of the conversation, he ALWAYS brought a comical, yet professional experience to the table. He will not be forgotten. Please view his passing as a commencement ceremony of sorts. My wife Toni and I wish you all the best and never forget the enthusiastic and contagious effect Kevin had on all of us. I can't remember any down faces with Kevin in the room or on the phone. That is the way I will remember him on earth. God bless. less
Kevin, I really still can’t believe you’re gone. From our shenanigans in high school getting our Catholic education and all the years beyond, we shared so many fun times and laughter!
I remember a few years back we ran into each other in the Miami... moreKevin, I really still can’t believe you’re gone. From our shenanigans in high school getting our Catholic education and all the years beyond, we shared so many fun times and laughter!
I remember a few years back we ran into each other in the Miami airport as you were leaving and I was coming in for work on Ash Wednesday and you were lovingly making fun of my ashes.
More recently, we would gush about rescuing ALL the dogs and especially our love for pit bulls! Just a year ago, for your birthday, you raised $200+ for the Pitbull Rescue Central group. I have made another donation now in your memorial. ❤️
Take care and shine bright until I see you again, friend.
Cailey & Parker Finan, who both wanted to say something to Uncle Kevin:
From Cailey (9):
Dear Uncle Kevin I remember how you would come to all my dance shows and we used to play and have fun. I remember how nice you are and had so many friends and I... moreCailey & Parker Finan, who both wanted to say something to Uncle Kevin:
From Cailey (9):
Dear Uncle Kevin I remember how you would come to all my dance shows and we used to play and have fun. I remember how nice you are and had so many friends and I loved you so so much and I still love you so so much. I wish I could say goodbye. I remember how you made people happy and were so funny and I wish you were still here and you loved me very much. I didnt know how much people loved you like Griff loved you so I'm happy you went to Jesus loved, smart and calm and peaceful. I love you and goodbye I love you so so so much.
Love, your friend Cailey
P.S. here is a picture of you and Griff
From Parker (4):
Dear uncle Kevin, I miss you. I love you so much. I hope you are feeling better that you are with Jesus and God. Can I get you a present and send it to Santa and Santa will give it to God and God will give it to you? I love Griff. You’re the best hugging dog in the world.
Kev - throughout the last week or so I’ve been thinking a lot about you and the wonderful memories you created. Some of my fondest memories were those days spent at Waters Field in Vienna during football season. We would carpool in your mom’s giant... moreKev - throughout the last week or so I’ve been thinking a lot about you and the wonderful memories you created. Some of my fondest memories were those days spent at Waters Field in Vienna during football season. We would carpool in your mom’s giant van all wearing our red and black Vienna jersey’s. You guys would always play before us because you were a lower weight class and I remember watching you fight to the final whistle with every fiber of your being. You motivated and inspired me in ways you never knew.
Until we see each other again, rest easy brother. less
Kevin - Through all the years of school together (and all the awkward phases we all went through), you were consistently a sweet and kind guy. Ever since the first grade, I’ve remembered your birthday was the day after mine and I will celebrate a... moreKevin - Through all the years of school together (and all the awkward phases we all went through), you were consistently a sweet and kind guy. Ever since the first grade, I’ve remembered your birthday was the day after mine and I will celebrate a little bigger this year for you. less
One of my most favorite people. Growing up with you, laughing until we got in trouble in 3rd grade, and all of our special talks - I’ll never forget. An amazing friend. Love you always, Kev.
You were one of my first playmates and always put up with me following you around when we were kids. I’ll never forget you finally admitting to stealing my lost tooth when we were practicing for Reconciliation (I already knew it was you). It’s hard... moreYou were one of my first playmates and always put up with me following you around when we were kids. I’ll never forget you finally admitting to stealing my lost tooth when we were practicing for Reconciliation (I already knew it was you). It’s hard to imagine a world without you in it. Rest In Peace sweet boy. less
Kev, I'm really gonna miss you brother. I'm struggling to find the words to say how I feel. In our last communication you sent me an email that read:
"Outstanding work. Proud of you. No matter if I manage (lol) you or not I'm still very excited to... moreKev, I'm really gonna miss you brother. I'm struggling to find the words to say how I feel. In our last communication you sent me an email that read:
"Outstanding work. Proud of you. No matter if I manage (lol) you or not I'm still very excited to see you progress. I know I'm not always easy to deal with but hopefully I have helped you a bit in our short period together and anything else I can do as you continue let me know. On your way to being a rockstar."
I took a screenshot of the email not knowing that would be the last time we speak. After almost a year of working with you every day and pissing you off countless times, that's all I ever wanted, was to make you proud. I know I made a lot of mistakes and repeated the same ones but you kept your cool and was a great boss. We became friends and I wish I had the chance to tell you Thank You more times.
Thank you for giving a shit, for working hard and taking me under your wing when you didn't have to. That trip to Austin with the team was one of the best times of my life. When you found out that I was going to NOLA the next day for my bachelor party and I told you that the plan was to go to the gym, you said "What?! That's not what you're supposed to do on Bachelor Parties! We're taking you out!" and I barely made my flight the next day.
I met Kevin at MicroStrategy conference probably 7+ years ago. I started using the services from Pandera at different places, in large part because I felt I could trust Kevin. In all those years, he has always been there for me. Always listening to the... moreI met Kevin at MicroStrategy conference probably 7+ years ago. I started using the services from Pandera at different places, in large part because I felt I could trust Kevin. In all those years, he has always been there for me. Always listening to the issues I was trying to solve and helping me find the resources to get them solved.
But the best thing I remember, is that he always made me feel good, happy and taken seriously. He had a wonderful way with people. I will deeply miss him, and MicroStrategy World will not be the same for me without him there. less
Kevin Curley
Big Kev! I will miss you my man. The most fun business trip that I've had since joining Pandera was the trip to Austin last summer with you and your business development team. I'll never forget the night at the dueling piano bar and will... moreKevin Curley
Big Kev! I will miss you my man. The most fun business trip that I've had since joining Pandera was the trip to Austin last summer with you and your business development team. I'll never forget the night at the dueling piano bar and will never forget you my brother! less
What I loved about Kevin was that he was the genuine article, there was no pretense or fakeness. If you asked his opinion , you got his real opinion and often at a volume that was louder than you were expecting lol.
Kevin had a big heart.
Kevin loved his... moreWhat I loved about Kevin was that he was the genuine article, there was no pretense or fakeness. If you asked his opinion , you got his real opinion and often at a volume that was louder than you were expecting lol.
Kevin had a big heart.
Kevin loved his friends, his dog, his brother’s kids/
Kevin was a great guy and will be truly missed. less
Damn, Kevin. I was just texting with you Thursday. Hard to believe you're gone. We were just becoming fast friends. Working together with you through our two companies was a privilege. I wish our friendship could have grown to its full potential. I have... moreDamn, Kevin. I was just texting with you Thursday. Hard to believe you're gone. We were just becoming fast friends. Working together with you through our two companies was a privilege. I wish our friendship could have grown to its full potential. I have no doubt we would have run the product/services sales world for years to come. Your Snowflake squad will be thinking of you always. Rest in peace my dude. less
Oh Kevin, you were a delight. I remember first seeing you at MicroStrategy and thinking, "Did Pat get a makeover? He's looking so much better." Then I heard it was a different Finan. Then I ended up in an office right near your cube. ... moreOh Kevin, you were a delight. I remember first seeing you at MicroStrategy and thinking, "Did Pat get a makeover? He's looking so much better." Then I heard it was a different Finan. Then I ended up in an office right near your cube.
There is nothing quite like being in a sales role, that lives off the inbound and outbound leads at a company, getting to sit near and observe the team (yours) that handles those leads. I can remember thinking the future was bright for MSTR seeing how energetic the whole team was, despite the fact that people who answered on the other end of cold calls dwindled more each day. I remember one particular time someone answered. Genevieve, making a cold call, was excited to have a human pick up--only to discover said human couldn't hear her because of the Scotch tape *someone* had placed on the mouthpiece of her phone. Of course, I had no idea the goings on until I would hear, "You're such a %&$#!, Kevin!" Not sure why your Dennis the Menace style giggling didn't assuage Genevieve's anger? And, the opposite was always entertaining. I remember Amanda taking in-bound calls with Scotch tape on her earpiece followed by the same giggles and yelling! ...Oh man, those were the days.
I remember being on the receiving end of your giggles. It was Good Friday circa 2012(?) and I was leaving for vacation that night. I was trying to do expenses that had piled up for 6 months only to lose them 2 hours in due to a bug with our crummy internal expense system. I guess I let loose with several terms and words I learned in Catholic school--and not so much with my inside voice. You came to my door laughing, thinking no one would ever let loose like that at work without it being a joke...only to be met with my rage. Sorry again about that! Can you tell St. Peter I didn't mean it?
Oh, man. Talking Redskins with you was always a blast. Talking sports. Talking business. Working with you on leads from Intro to BI classes at MSTR. Seeing you spread your wings at other firms and do so well was no surprise.
Your giggles, laughs, smiles and pleasant demeanor will stay with me and all who knew you. Rest in peace. HTTR! less
There are some people in life that leave a lasting positive impression on you, and Kevin was one of those people. Everyone that had the opportunity to get to know him would say the same thing, he was one of the most genuine and kind hearted guys I knew.... moreThere are some people in life that leave a lasting positive impression on you, and Kevin was one of those people. Everyone that had the opportunity to get to know him would say the same thing, he was one of the most genuine and kind hearted guys I knew. He truly cared about people, relationships, and most importantly knew who he was. Kevin, you will be missed my friend, and I'm thankful for your friendship and the memories and joy it brought us both. less
Kev... he lit a fire under my ass metaphorically when I needed it, he put dirty socks in my mouth literally when I wanted nothing more than to know what it’s like to have big brothers, he once in awhile gave me smiles so loving and peaceful, gentle and... moreKev... he lit a fire under my ass metaphorically when I needed it, he put dirty socks in my mouth literally when I wanted nothing more than to know what it’s like to have big brothers, he once in awhile gave me smiles so loving and peaceful, gentle and kind in a way that only he could do, and brought a sense of sarcasm and humor to every single memory with him. I thought there would be more time on earth to share with him, but I was taking time for granted. Please forgive me Kevin, I would’ve been there more if only we got to know our fate in advance. It’ll never be the same without you.. He makes our family whole. There won’t be a single time or place we go where he won’t be too, because we’ll each carry our precious pieces as we come together. I can already feel that he’s just a heartbeat away. Let’s cheers to Kevin until we’re with him again! and in his honor take time with our people for what it is - a gift. less
There's so much I can say here, but at the same time I cant seem to say anything...I'm going through bouts of being fine and then completely not. I'll try to write more later or share some of the stories of you that will be the ones I remember for years... moreThere's so much I can say here, but at the same time I cant seem to say anything...I'm going through bouts of being fine and then completely not. I'll try to write more later or share some of the stories of you that will be the ones I remember for years and years (breakthrough, Biggie, BDM, "ok, I'll handle it", fights, etc, etc) but for now just want to say I love you so much. less