The Garff family has created a place online for friends and family to celebrate the life of Robert Heiner Garff. We invite you to share your stories and memories of this great man.
It's been a lost year 2020, not to mention my mind. I think I have a note in here somewhere, but just ran across this photo of our old Band of Brothers. In this photo .. Bob followed 3 others. He is missed by all of us.
Robert Garff was always kind to me and my family. In the beginning of my career, he took time out his day to visit my 18 month old son who was deathly ill in the NICU at Primary Children's Hospital. He was genuinely concerned and allowed me the time I... moreRobert Garff was always kind to me and my family. In the beginning of my career, he took time out his day to visit my 18 month old son who was deathly ill in the NICU at Primary Children's Hospital. He was genuinely concerned and allowed me the time I needed to be there for my family. From that moment on I knew I had chosen the right person/company to work for. He was a great leader who will be missed. less
My family worked for the Garffs. My mother worked for Ken Garff and later
Robert and Kathi Garff. We have many fond memories about the Garff family. We send our thoughts and prayers to the Garff family at this time. Much love - Hart Wesemann and family.
Bob Garff is a gentle, wise man with a testimony that has strengthened mine. Kathi taught a Relief Society class one Sunday (I always looked forward to her lessons!) and had Bob come in and express his testimony and love of the Book of Mormon. It touched... moreBob Garff is a gentle, wise man with a testimony that has strengthened mine. Kathi taught a Relief Society class one Sunday (I always looked forward to her lessons!) and had Bob come in and express his testimony and love of the Book of Mormon. It touched me to the core and lit a fire in my heart to study with more intent and gratitude for the truths, comfort and love that is manifest from our Savior in that great book. I am so thankful for the testimony he shared. He truly is a man of God. I also loved hearing him talk about the temple. He had so many wonderful experiences to share and insights that again touched my heart and strengthened my desire to find myself in the temple more. His influence was broad and he made such an incredible impact on all those who knew him. I'm so grateful to know such a dear man and his beautiful family. We are praying for you and mourning your loss. We are still feeling keenly the loss of our Luke and know that in the months and years to come you will continue to grieve but the pain seems to turn into an overwhelming sense of gratitude, love and honor. We are here for you and hope we can help in anyway you need. We know that Bob is near and that angels are with you to bear you up at this time. We are praying for your continued peace. We love you with all our hearts! less
We’d met a number of times throughout my life, I’m sure, but it was special to have some real QT with Bob and Kathi on the bike trip this last summer. They were my biggest fans! So loving and supportive, so sweet and so genuinely interested - in me,... moreWe’d met a number of times throughout my life, I’m sure, but it was special to have some real QT with Bob and Kathi on the bike trip this last summer. They were my biggest fans! So loving and supportive, so sweet and so genuinely interested - in me, my life, what I wanted to do, ect. They provided conversation, opportunity, and love.
This last fall, I had the chance to work in Salt Lake with many of the Garffs. My first few weeks at Ken Garff I was dealing with a lot of health challenges. Rick was so nice to provide the opportunity to work with his team and had so much faith in me. While he was in and out, busy with his own things, I would often get to see Bob wander through to check in on me. Seeing Bob would always make everyday worth it. It was like seeing family. It would MAKE my week. Every time. Without fail. He would check in, I’d get the hug I needed from a grandpa in the office and I lived for it. It made that emotional and physically draining time, beyond worth it.
When I needed help, doctors, connections, Kathi and Bob were my people! They were wise in their giving, they were respected in the community of doctors, and I was so blessed because of their service and generosity. They knew what they were doing, and I was beyond lucky to be looked after by them.
For General Conference in October, Kathi and Bob invited my husband and I to be with their family at the ranch. It was so nice of them! Probably so random to all the other family that didn’t know us, but they welcomed us in. They told us about the ranch, they made us feel included. They illustrate such an amazing balance of love, gospel, family, and success in their everyday lives. I look up to them in SO many ways and will continue to strive and emulate the lives they’ve led.
And back to the bike trip - we loved that we could end on such a high with Bob! Biking through the Netherlands, Germany, and France. This is where Sam first met the Garffs. The memory we always think back on was when we were invited for dinner in the Garff’s little family zone on the ship. Everyone told their stories of how they met their spouse. The whole family was so sweet, inclusive, and cared to hear about us. I remember smiling across from Bob, wearing his all red attire, and me letting him know that when his birthday came around I was getting him some cougar blue! He laughed ;)
As well, Kathi has always been such a great example of being so generous and inclusive! I love her spry personality and liveliness. She shared her coveted Roger Federer hat and I knew that we were true friends She is amazing. She calls, she’s on it, she cares. I love these two. What a dynamic pair, a true love story.
We send our love and prayers to the Garffs and are happy to have them close in our lives.
We can’t wait to bike up in heaven with you Bob! Check in on us and we’ll make you proud.
Love always,
Megan & Sam Smith
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A few years ago , Bob was recovering from a difficult leg injury. Clark Robinson called me on the phone and suggested we take him out the next morning and play nine holes of golf. The summer morning was beautiful and the course in the... moreMartin Blundell:
A few years ago , Bob was recovering from a difficult leg injury. Clark Robinson called me on the phone and suggested we take him out the next morning and play nine holes of golf. The summer morning was beautiful and the course in the middle of the week was not crowded, a perfect day for some casual golf. Bob greeted me in his warm and approachable manner, asking about Norma and my children as we walked to the first tee.
Golf is a social game. It gave us time to catch up with one another on family, friends, and business. Golf is also conducive to good-natured banter, especially on the tee box. Bob had used his three wood to hit his drive on the first hole. However on the third hole, feeling warmed up and a bit more confident, he pulled a new, very long-shafted driver from his bag, and removed the head cover. When he addressed the ball it appeared to me to be the largest driver head I had ever seen! I commented, "Bob, the head on that driver looks like a Volkswagen on a long stick!" Bob was head down with a smile on his face considering his new driver, then suddenly looked up at Clark and me and started to laugh. He couldn't swing for a few moments while he ruminated over the thought. Bob finally said, "For a person in my position, a car guy, I've got to remember that!" less
It was his voice I remember... so calm, reassuring, positive. And ALWAYS asking the same question, "It's good to see you. How's your family?"
I remember his voice from many pulpits- speaking with warmth, love, and conviction of the... moreIt was his voice I remember... so calm, reassuring, positive. And ALWAYS asking the same question, "It's good to see you. How's your family?"
I remember his voice from many pulpits- speaking with warmth, love, and conviction of the truthfulness of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, quoting & explaining scriptures, and sharing wonderful stories. His voice consistently expressed his deep love and respect for his beloved Kathi, and his remarkable children & grandchildren.
Bob's kindness, steadiness, concern, and Christ-like love for others lives on in his wonderful family; and I will be forever blessed to have known and loved Bob Garff. less
One of the great joys of living where we do, is our sweet association with Bob and Kathi Garff. For all these years, we have basked in this sweet friendship, and losing our dear friend Bob has rocked us. We nevertheless are very grateful that we will... moreOne of the great joys of living where we do, is our sweet association with Bob and Kathi Garff. For all these years, we have basked in this sweet friendship, and losing our dear friend Bob has rocked us. We nevertheless are very grateful that we will have Kathi with us, but we will miss Bob so much.
We express our deep love to you, Kathi. We are so grateful for you and Bob, for your many acts of kindness and friendship.
We will long remember the kind hospitality of Bob and Kathi Garff as our high priest group and spouses were so generously received at your lovely home at your ranch back in 2011. Bob gently guided me as we planned that event, and we ended up with an evening that those one hundred guests will never forget, including the magic of Hal & Michelle Cannon performing cowboy poetry and music.
I never had any doubt that Bob Garff was my friend. Nothing that he had accomplished and nothing that he possessed ever got in the way of being a kindly, self-effacing, warm friend. I will ever remember the day on which I was released from a calling in our ward as I watched Bob make his way through the crowd just to greet me and pay me a compliment. I was very touched.
We love the “Bob & Kathi” team. You have inspired us, and you still inspire us. We take great comfort knowing that you are still the “team” eternally.
Kathi and Robert Garff served our neighborhood and community as tireless and dynamic influencers for good, both toward the youth and their parents. They conducted their lives in ways that were demonstrably uplifting and influential to us all. They... moreKathi and Robert Garff served our neighborhood and community as tireless and dynamic influencers for good, both toward the youth and their parents. They conducted their lives in ways that were demonstrably uplifting and influential to us all. They motivated our children to be constantly engaged in service to others and to manifest pure empathy and understanding as they progressed in actionable ways. Robert Garff will be sorely missed and we express our deepest love toward Kathi and their family for the years to come. Love, David Egbert less
I am honored to have called Bob my friend, and I can't imagine life without him. We worked together on many projects over the years and were in the midst of planning for the Ken Garff Performance Zone project before he passed away. I will miss his warm... moreI am honored to have called Bob my friend, and I can't imagine life without him. We worked together on many projects over the years and were in the midst of planning for the Ken Garff Performance Zone project before he passed away. I will miss his warm smile, great sense of humor, the fabulous car speakerphone conversations with him and Kathi, and his encouragement to be the best we can be.
Bob imparted an important lesson to me while we worked together on the Garff Building at the David Eccles School of Business, a lesson he learned from his father, Ken: to leave a legacy of opportunity. Bob embodied that ideal, continually bettering the world around him and providing opportunity to countless individuals. I will miss him dearly. less
Just wanted to contact you guys personally to say that I"m sorry to hear what happen. My condolences to you. I personally lost my Dad when I was 5 years old and I wish he was still around for me when I was growing up. I know what you guys are going... moreJust wanted to contact you guys personally to say that I"m sorry to hear what happen. My condolences to you. I personally lost my Dad when I was 5 years old and I wish he was still around for me when I was growing up. I know what you guys are going through, and I'm glad he was able to inculcate some great habits. I was able to meet Him in person when you guys first bought Texan GMC . I was part of the transition at the time and on and off continued working for you. Here's a big hug on my behalf to you guys ,( ups sorry 6 ft away lol .) You guys have a nice day
Northwest Dodge
Mauro Ayala Romero
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I know you are most likely being inundated with emails, calls, and texts so please do not feel that you need to take the time to reply to this. I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am, and that you two have been a major part of my... moreMatt, John-
I know you are most likely being inundated with emails, calls, and texts so please do not feel that you need to take the time to reply to this. I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am, and that you two have been a major part of my thoughts this week. I really appreciated the facebook posts you made that I have been able to read on your father and his life, impact, and contribution he made. I loved that man!
My heart goes out to you guys and your family. I know this is a trying time, and I know you are and have endured some significant heartache. The refiners fire is tough.
“Good timber does not grow with ease,
The stronger wind, the stronger trees.
The further sky, the greater length.
The more the storm, the more the strength.
By sun and cold, by rain and snow,
In trees and men good timbers grow.”
I ordered the poem “Invictus” this week for my office to remind me of your father, as I know he loved that one. Along with you, I look forward to the day I can see him again, shake his hand, and share a warm smile.
In the meantime, the more I can perform in the station you have entrusted me with the less you will have to stress or worry. I will do that, and not let you down. You have my loyalty, support, and friendship.
Kathi, John, Melissa, Jennifer, Matt, Mary and Family,
I wanted to share a few memories I have about Robert Garff, just a few months ago, Lori and I had the opportunity to attend a fundraising event and sat with Robert and Kathy. As always, they were... moreKathi, John, Melissa, Jennifer, Matt, Mary and Family,
I wanted to share a few memories I have about Robert Garff, just a few months ago, Lori and I had the opportunity to attend a fundraising event and sat with Robert and Kathy. As always, they were both very kind and inquired as to how we were doing and the association. It was that continued genuine concern for people that your dad always had for everyone. On one occasion a few years ago there was a legislative issue that I needed some advice on and so I naturally called Bob for that council. After giving me some background from his experience, we talked about how to approach the issue. Although I do not remember the exact details of the problem, I do remember his advice. It was to not take the course that we were contemplating and leave the issue alone, and that we did. Years ago I was able to golf in a fundraiser for Senator Orrin Hatch with Bob and two others. Robert talked about business, life and many other things. Not every stroke was a good one but the game was found and enjoyable anyway. When Robert had both of his knees replaced because of an injury, I had the opportunity to visit him in the rehabilitation facility in Sandy. Classic Robert was upbeat and positive, understanding that his recovery was a process that he would be able to get through and be better when it was over.
I appreciate Robert H. Garff for his goodness, example and impact that he has had on my life, the automobile industry and thousands of others. Please accept our family’s deepest gratitude for the privilege we had to know Robert and be his friend.
Dear John and Matt,
It’s with a heavy heart that I write this email. I was shocked and saddened to learn about your dad’s passing over the weekend. I feel so lucky to have known him and for the day we spent with him last August. I left our meeting... moreDear John and Matt,
It’s with a heavy heart that I write this email. I was shocked and saddened to learn about your dad’s passing over the weekend. I feel so lucky to have known him and for the day we spent with him last August. I left our meeting in awe of how humble and gracious he was that day. What mattered most was giving back to others rather than all of your amazing business accomplishments and success.
As he took us on a tour, I saw the eyes of your employees light up when he recognized them. He said hello to everyone. And I vividly remember what he said to me that day too. “I’m not sure what we believe about Volvo, but I know what we do believe in, and that’s Carrie Catherine.” What a profound and lovely thing to say. I get emotional every time I think about it.
Your father’s philosophy about life and business are evident in how you and your management team treat your employees, customers and business partners. What a wonderful legacy that will carry on. I know this is an extremely difficult time for your family and employees. I believe that your father was needed for greater things. Please be safe and I pray your mom has recovered.
All the best to you and your families. Sending a virtual hug too. If you need anything from us, please let me know.
Carrie Catherine
Strategic Senior Network Manager | USA
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What a great life to look back at! Privileged to grow up, where we did, closer than “next door”, I loved his infectious laugh and sing song voice he used for effect. He was one of my 2nd dads. Later In life, when I needed it most, he and Kathi were... moreWhat a great life to look back at! Privileged to grow up, where we did, closer than “next door”, I loved his infectious laugh and sing song voice he used for effect. He was one of my 2nd dads. Later In life, when I needed it most, he and Kathi were about the first at my doorstep to help me through a great trial. What a great example in so many ways. When I think on Bob, I will remember most the warmth he showed each time we crossed paths. Love from us! less
Thank you for providing the opportunity for others to share their thoughts, stories, and photos of our beloved England Coventry Mission President and friend, Bob Garff. I cannot talk about Bob without including Kathi as the two exemplified a true... moreThank you for providing the opportunity for others to share their thoughts, stories, and photos of our beloved England Coventry Mission President and friend, Bob Garff. I cannot talk about Bob without including Kathi as the two exemplified a true oneness in their marriage. I have been so blessed to be able to call you both respectfully, my mission father and mother. Your genuine love and concern for those that served under your leadership during that time in Great Britain has extended through time and distance. I am thankful for the blessings, words of encouragement and wisdom, and support you have given to me personally for all these years.
Yesterday, I spent time going through mission photos, journals, audio tapes, and other memorabilia from the time I spent in the England Coventry Mission with the Garffs. I found the memory book made for missionaries containing the Garff family mission statement, motto, saying, and song, as well as the mission statement of our mission, photos, and addresses of missionaries. The one item that stood out to me was your family motto: “Garffs Never Give Up.” Bob and Kathi never gave up on any of those that served under their leadership. They did everything to try and help their missionaries be successful and find joy through serving others to complete their service. While looking through my journal, I also came across one particular challenging time that I had written about at the beginning of my mission. I wrote how President Garff was supportive and encouraging with his words—he was a builder who was “empathic and understanding.”
The photos I have chosen to share include various Zone Conferences in Birmingham and other mission events such as the Sister’s Conference at Kennelworth Castle, and the Knights of the Roundtable at Tutbury Castle. One of the many things that Bob taught me was that people are motivated to do a job, whether it was missionary work or other work, in different ways. Some innately want to do and be their best; some are motivated by rules; others are motivated by praise, while others are motivated by competitions and activities. The Garffs helped their missionaries be successful by providing opportunities to grow spiritually, as well as culturally and socially, and to have fun while doing it. These activities truly enabled us to build unity as a mission and we truly became the Garff Mission Family.
Relationships with the Garffs did not end after the mission. I am thankful for the annual Christmas letter that was shared with former missionaries each year. It was also a treat for me to go into the Bountiful Temple and see both President and Sister Garff serving in that capacity—once again bringing joy to all those that served with them. I am thankful for the guidance and counsel that they provided to me when I faced personal challenging times and for taking the time to help my daughters and me.
I will never forget how Bob supported me when my own father passed away in 2003. He came to his funeral in Salt Lake City to show his support of my family. I am so thankful for that act of kindness, which meant so much to me.
A couple of years ago, my youngest daughter was in a car accident, which totaled her vehicle. I sought out Bob’s assistance and he personally helped my daughter find a used car and in doing so coached and counseled her in the process. My daughter was touched by the help he gave to her and stated she had never had any man do as much for her as Bob had done. It was a blessing to have a righteous priesthood holder be such a positive example to her. When I thanked him for his assistance, I will never forget what Bob said to me, “You deserve to be helped.”
In preparing my remembrance, the thought came to my mind of a song that my companion Stacie Smith (Shurtliff) and I had recorded and sent to my parents during the mission. As it says in the song, “the way that he lived is an evidence that he cared…a pillar of light…” Old Bob was that light. Thank you for sharing him with us all.
Kathi, Stuart and I were saddened to read of Bob's passing. We valued our time with both of you on the IHC Corporate Board. Bob was a wise, contributing board member. You were warm, friendly, and inclusive with the spouses of the board members. It's been... moreKathi, Stuart and I were saddened to read of Bob's passing. We valued our time with both of you on the IHC Corporate Board. Bob was a wise, contributing board member. You were warm, friendly, and inclusive with the spouses of the board members. It's been so long ago. You may not remember us but we remember you and fun conversations and adventures.
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Bishop Garff helped shape my youth in many ways. My fond memories include learning how to water ski at lake Powell, sleepover and ski outings at Solitude. But most of all I remember Robert as a man of devotion for his family, his God and a love for all...
I am privileged to have had Uncle Bob Garff in my life. He was family and a mentor as I had a unique opportunity to live with President Garff and his family in the Coventry England Mission home. I was there as a nanny, to help and support Aunt Kathi,... moreI am privileged to have had Uncle Bob Garff in my life. He was family and a mentor as I had a unique opportunity to live with President Garff and his family in the Coventry England Mission home. I was there as a nanny, to help and support Aunt Kathi, helping with the kids, housework, cooking, welcoming missionaries arriving, sending off others that had completed their service, cooking and setting up for zone conferences, hosting apostles in the mission home, and speaking in church with the family. It was an amazing time to learn and live the gospel in every moment and activity we did. Uncle Bob had a passion for scripture study in understanding and connecting things all together. My scriptures are well loved, marked in a variety of colors, filled with quotes and references. Uncle Bob and Aunt Kathi both gave 110% to everything they did, unconditional love to each and every missionary as they served their mission, a love to England, the English people and the culture. They found happiness and an opportunity to learn and grow as they served their mission.
I have loved reading and reflecting on all the stories that I have read from everyone. Uncle Bob was an example of living as the Savior lived. He loved all. He had compassion for others. He had the desire to serve and to help others. He loved unconditionally and would embrace you each time he would see you.
I look forward in seeing him again. Know of my love and appreciation for the memories of England and all the family times together in Utah.
I met Bob and Kathi after moving to bountiful and developing an immediate friendship and connection with his daughter Mary. It was a time in my life that I was seeking much spiritual growth and Gospel understanding. When appropriate, Mary would forward... moreI met Bob and Kathi after moving to bountiful and developing an immediate friendship and connection with his daughter Mary. It was a time in my life that I was seeking much spiritual growth and Gospel understanding. When appropriate, Mary would forward me talks Bob had given or devotionals he shared in the temple. I treasured every lesson he taught and spent the last week re-reading all of his teachings. He was such a wise man of God and I often told Mary of my wish to sit at hers fathers feet and have him teach me everything he knows. My condolences to Kathi and all those mourning the loss of their Father, Grandfather, and friend.
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My memories of Bob Garff were through a different lens than most. Mine were forged over the most impressionable years of my youth growing up with the Garff, Robinson and Peterson families on the creek at Indian Springs. Theirs was an experiment and we... moreMy memories of Bob Garff were through a different lens than most. Mine were forged over the most impressionable years of my youth growing up with the Garff, Robinson and Peterson families on the creek at Indian Springs. Theirs was an experiment and we kids were largely the test subjects. In addition to my own wonderful parents, Bob and Kathy and Clark and DeAnn were my defacto parents.
The running joke amongst the families is that a paternity test is in order since my particular passions and interests aligned much more with Bob's than with my own father, Leon's. Cowboys, golden retrievers and of course fishing and hunting at Heiner's Canyon. But Bob was so much more than one dimensional! The balance Bob and Kathy achieved in their lives remains one of their greatest legacies and something that will always inspire me.
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My wife and I were saddened to hear of Bob's passing. We can't believe this has happened to such a wonderful man, and my boss for over 37 years. I first met the Garff Family when I was in my late 20's. I worked for his father, Ken, for many years on and... moreMy wife and I were saddened to hear of Bob's passing. We can't believe this has happened to such a wonderful man, and my boss for over 37 years. I first met the Garff Family when I was in my late 20's. I worked for his father, Ken, for many years on and off. I managed the Mercedes Store in the 80's. Then had the opportunity to work at the Ford Store in Murray. And my last 37 years, under Bob, until I retired several years ago. Bob gave me so many wonderful opportunities throughout my career with the Ken Garff organization. I managed the Porsche/Audi/VW store in Orem, and my last several years was General Manager of Corporate Fleet Sales working out of the Ford store in Pleasant Grove. Like Ken, Bob, was an honest, friendly employer, and never missed the opportunity to thank me and show his appreciation for something I had done or one of my employees had accomplished. There was never a time, whether it was at a Ken Garff function or a place we may run into him and Kathi that they didn't both go out of their way to talk to my wife and me. When our son was born they sent the cutest gift. They treated us always as though we were a member of the family. Bob, you will be missed by so many in this community, both at the dealership, at Church/Temple and at other Organizations that you were involved in. You have done so much for so many people, and are a "Giant of a Man" in the State of Utah. A neighbor of ours, John Fowler, who you worked with during the 2002 Winter Olympics, made a profound statement to us via an email, "Bob must have been needed to do great things in Heaven", and Kathi and the entire Garff Family, we know he will be looking after you always. Our thoughts and prayers to you Kathi that you may have strength during the difficult days that are ahead of you. We know your family will be by your side. May God be with you Kathi and your family during this challenging time. Bob, you were a very special influence to both me and to my family.
Missing my friend Bob. Hoping his wonderful family is finding comfort and peace knowing how much he was loved and respected. I have great memories of our Utah football trips. ❤️
I had the honor of knowing Bob through my position at the U's Alumni Association and in working with Keys To Success scholarships. He was always so gracious and kind. He always expressed his gratitude.
Clare Boothe Luce once stated, "A great man is... moreI had the honor of knowing Bob through my position at the U's Alumni Association and in working with Keys To Success scholarships. He was always so gracious and kind. He always expressed his gratitude.
Clare Boothe Luce once stated, "A great man is one sentence." For me, Bob Garff's sentence would be, "Bob Garff loved and cared for every person he met." less
I had the great privilege of getting to know Bob and Kathi over the past six months as we planned a fundraising event together. I saw Bob’s passion, business prowess, and leadership skills firsthand, as well as the immense care he had for others.... moreI had the great privilege of getting to know Bob and Kathi over the past six months as we planned a fundraising event together. I saw Bob’s passion, business prowess, and leadership skills firsthand, as well as the immense care he had for others. It’s no surprise he accomplished all he did during his life.
Sending thoughts and prayers to Kathi and the entire Garff family during this difficult time.
I was first shocked and then deeply saddened when I received the texts and heard the news about Bob's passing. It has been a privilege, over the years to come to know, respect and love the Garff family and "Old Bob" in particular. My... moreI was first shocked and then deeply saddened when I received the texts and heard the news about Bob's passing. It has been a privilege, over the years to come to know, respect and love the Garff family and "Old Bob" in particular. My acquaintance first started back in the early 1990's when Bob's son John, pledged and went active in Sigma Chi at the University of Utah. I knew of Bob's membership in Sigma Chi when I was the regional director (Grand Praetor) of Sigma Chi in Utah and Nevada and became more aware of just how many of the Utah icons were members of Sigma Chi. Bob was among them and I finally got the chance meet him. John becoming a Sigma Chi brought Bob to attend more activities of the undergraduate chapter and I became better acquainted each time he was at the Sigma Chi house or that he and some of the other Sigma Chi's who had son's the same age attended activities or even shared their time and treasure by sponsoring activities of the fraternity. On several occasions I was able to hear stories of Bob's undergraduate days in Sigma Chi and I learned that he loved a good practical joke. I remember on one occasion we had a dinner at the Mercedes Benz dealership and after dinner he brought out several boxes of Cummings chocolates... anyone who knew Bob well just passed the box to the next person.... those of us who didn't.... well, we got a mouthful of a variety of fillings that were, let's just say... non-traditional and definitely unexpected.
Over the years it has been a privilege for me and my wife, Pam, to get to know Bob in many different settings. He called us to serve on the Northern Utah Area Public Affairs Council, he and Kathi always greeted us when we saw them in the Bountiful Temple, and in Area Councils and settings where we interacted he always made sure that he shook my hand with that brotherly handshake, and a wink and a smile. I don't ever remember seeing him that he didn't take time to ask how my wife was doing, or if it was both Pam and I, how our family was. It was evident that the things most important to him was Kathi, and his family.
I have learned more about how to be a better man, husband, father, and citizen from "Old Bob," His kindness was sincere and deep, his gentle ways were always a trademark, his love for others, always evident. He was a generous steward over heavens gifts of which he always acknowledge their Source. He had an endearing smile that gave you a sure indication he valued you and the friendship you shared. He always took a genuine interest in you. I never remember him wanting to talk about himself or his accomplishments or the circles he traveled, or the possessions he had. Even on those occasions that you wanted to know more about those things he was hesitant to even acknowledge them or talk much about them. I remember conversations about the 2002 Olympics and wanting to know more about what he did, who he met, and how he felt during those times and he always turned the conversation to the athletes, or the volunteers of the State of Utah and made that the conversation. He never saw himself as anyone any better, more accomplished, wealthier, or more spiritual than anyone else, but he was and that is why we loved him so much... he even almost convinced us that he really was just "Old Bob," - but we knew better. We knew him to be that man that we ourselves wanted to be more like. Because we knew him, we are better. Because we knew him we will continue to be better because when we finish our work here, as he has done, we will want to be where he is now. We know that if we always try to be more like "Old Bob," because he always, by example, taught us to be more like someone he knows and emulated throughout his life, his Lord, and our Lord, Jesus Christ. Bob truly showed us that we could be more Christ-like and he never was ashamed of his relationship with His God. Thank you Bob for your friendship, your example, your kindness, your love, your smile, your gentleness, your meekness, and your love for all and the community in which you lived. Godspeed, my brother and friend!
Godspeed also to you, dear Kathi and all of the Garff families, the Folkerson's, and the Ballard's, as well. We love you and look forward to the day when we can embrace again and remember together our blessings for being family,friends and associates. less
I have many great memories of spending time with Bob and his entire family growing up next door to him at the Indian Springs "compound". Bob, Kathi, Clark and Deeann Robinson and my parents, Karen and Leon, had the vision to create a place for... moreI have many great memories of spending time with Bob and his entire family growing up next door to him at the Indian Springs "compound". Bob, Kathi, Clark and Deeann Robinson and my parents, Karen and Leon, had the vision to create a place for our families that we will always remember and be grateful for.
Bob's warmth, his natural affection and genuine nature will all be attributes that I remember, admire and try to emulate. Bob never lost the "common touch" of being able to relate to any person no matter at what level or stage of life. He humbly went about his life not putting himself above others.
I was able to see Bob in action most recently at a baptism for his grandson, James Menlove. You could see the connection Bob had with James just like I have seen that connection with his other grandchildren and family members.
Bob is a beloved friend and mentor to me, my wife and kids and to the entire Peterson family. Losing him was sudden and unexpected. One comfort I can take is to think how many, like me, have been strengthened and lifted by Bob because of the life he led. less
Bob was a wonderful leader and a great example to me. His kind and friendly manner will be deeply missed in our community. He has created an amazing legacy.
We are missing our dear friend, Bob Garff and pray that Kathi and all the family will be comforted at this time of great sorrow. We are all mourning his shocking loss.
Bob was a great friend and mentor in life, business, and the Church. It was a... moreWe are missing our dear friend, Bob Garff and pray that Kathi and all the family will be comforted at this time of great sorrow. We are all mourning his shocking loss.
Bob was a great friend and mentor in life, business, and the Church. It was a pleasure to work with him at the office and in his various Church assignments. Our lives have been inextricable woven together, making us much bolder in faith and acumen. For his wisdom and knowledge we will ever be blessed.
We extend to all our condolences from Hawaii as we feel his loss even in the middle of the Pacific. In times like these we lean on the hope of the Resurrection when we can all be reunited in the same sociality that exists here. With that hope, it's not farewell, it's "see ya' later, Old Bob!" less
President and Sister Garff were there for me during some of the more difficult times in my life. I am so grateful for the love he showed and the wisdom he shared, it had a lasting impact and affected the way I live my life. I count myself blessed having... morePresident and Sister Garff were there for me during some of the more difficult times in my life. I am so grateful for the love he showed and the wisdom he shared, it had a lasting impact and affected the way I live my life. I count myself blessed having called Bob a friend. He will be deeply missed and I will be eternally grateful for the kindness he showed me during his life. My heart sincerely goes out to the family, I love you and mourn with you. less
I am so thankful the opportunity that I had to know and to learn from Bob. Bob was one of the most accomplished and loving people that one could know. I had the opportunity to work with Bob in our foundation, Success in Education and spend time with... moreI am so thankful the opportunity that I had to know and to learn from Bob. Bob was one of the most accomplished and loving people that one could know. I had the opportunity to work with Bob in our foundation, Success in Education and spend time with him, his kids, and grandkids. Bob loved life and he loved helping and being with people. He was the Chairman of our foundation, Success in Education and provided invaluable leadership and direction. As busy as Bob was, he always found time to keynote events and spend time with students. Bob truly loved these students and after speaking to them he would tap his heart twice with his fist and point to them. He truly loved them and everyone felt it. Bob loved the Garff Ranch. On a couple of occasions, I
had the opportunity ride with him on round ups. Bob loved pushing his cows and I know Ken was looking down at him with a smile. Bob said that he always felt the spirit of his father (Ken) at the Garff Ranch, a very special place for him. We hunted with Bob and the kids, but Bob didn’t go to hunt, he went to be with his kids and grand kids. I don’t know if Bob ever fired his gun. He absolutely loved being with his family!
Bob leaves behind a legacy of great accomplishments and love. We love you “old” Bob! less
I remember well the first time I met Bob. We were both participating in a commencement ceremony at the U of U. He and I along with others were seated on the stand. I was sitting between Bob and another well known person in the community. Leading up... moreI remember well the first time I met Bob. We were both participating in a commencement ceremony at the U of U. He and I along with others were seated on the stand. I was sitting between Bob and another well known person in the community. Leading up to the start of the ceremony I had a lot of conversation with both. To my left was the other gentleman and though our interaction was good, I couldn't help but contrast it with the conversation I had with Bob who was seated on my right. Bob never once said anything about himself. He wanted to know more about me, my business and my family. I was struck by his humility and his genuine concern for others. As we have seen each other off and on over the years, he has always been the same. I have always been grateful for his example. less
Posting on behalf of Mike Lucero:
"I started out at Ken Garff Mitsubishi, Hyundai in 2000. We were located in the downtown block in Salt Lake City, along with several other Ken Garff dealerships. Back then Robert Garff had his office in the Mercedes... morePosting on behalf of Mike Lucero:
"I started out at Ken Garff Mitsubishi, Hyundai in 2000. We were located in the downtown block in Salt Lake City, along with several other Ken Garff dealerships. Back then Robert Garff had his office in the Mercedes building and his son John Garff had his office in the Hyundai car sales building. I was the shipper for Mits/Hyun and I remember Mr. Garff stopping in soon after I started and introduced himself to me. Robert would walk from his office in Mercedes over to talk to John in the Hyundai building several times a day. If my overhead door was open, he would always stop in and say hi. He would often ask how my two daughters and my parents were doing. Back in those days, we would have barbecues on the block every summer. We had five brands located on the block then, and a lot of employees. There would be a lot of tables set up. Robert Garff would be right in the middle of it. He would be cooking, and he would help serve the food. But most of all he would make it a point to shake hands and thank every single employee for the job they were doing. He was very personable.
Last year (2019) I won the Mexico trip from my dealership to Puerto Vallarta. On the second day there, my wife and I were in line waiting for a bus to take us to a boat for a sunset cruise for the Garff employees. Robert was right behind us in line and of course everyone was talking to him. I had the opportunity to talk to him also. We reminisced about those good old days on the block. About barbecues, about him stopping in to ask about my family. I could tell he was happy to be talking to an employee who, not only remembered those days, but was also very fond of those times.
On the last day of the trip at a banquet held on the beach, he spoke to us. I have several pictures I took of him talking to the group. I will cherish them always. I will be one of the people, on a long list of those that will miss him. "
I have known the Garff family a long time. It started in the 1970’s when at Tracy Collins Bank I first met Ken and Bob Garff. I know of Bob’s great service to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. The son of a family I baptized in a... moreI have known the Garff family a long time. It started in the 1970’s when at Tracy Collins Bank I first met Ken and Bob Garff. I know of Bob’s great service to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. The son of a family I baptized in a England in 1968 served as a missionary under President and Sidter Garff. Recently I have had a chance as a University Ambassador to welcome the Garff family to the Utah Football games. Bob always took a minute to chat with me and thank me for what I was doing. The world has lost a great man. We are all better for having known him. less
My first memory of meeting Bob and Kathi was when they were mission president in England. We stayed with them for a week. Bob taught us from the scriptures every morning in his calm, genuinely authentic kind, encouraging nature. He made such a lasting... moreMy first memory of meeting Bob and Kathi was when they were mission president in England. We stayed with them for a week. Bob taught us from the scriptures every morning in his calm, genuinely authentic kind, encouraging nature. He made such a lasting impression. Over the years he and Kathi would always go out of there way to say hello and to check on how I was doing. We love you Bob. We love you Kathi. We love all the Garff’s and Folkerson’s!!!! less
Robert Garff passed my desk to get to his office for over twelve years, and yet I struggle to find a memory that I can share, that would seem significant in black and white. As I reviewed my many memories of him, I recognized that it wasn't what he said... moreRobert Garff passed my desk to get to his office for over twelve years, and yet I struggle to find a memory that I can share, that would seem significant in black and white. As I reviewed my many memories of him, I recognized that it wasn't what he said that was important. It was the manner in which he said it. It was the warmth of his tone and the light in his eyes that was significant.
I watched as he greeted former governors and former missionaries. He met with people that the world thought were very important and people the world didn't think were important at all, but to him, everybody was important. He prioritized people over things. He shared what he had. He always made and effort to give a compliment. He cared!
He cared about each of his employees, over 5,000 at one point, and their families. He took the time to do the math. He felt the weight of the estimated 20,000 people who depended on decisions he made. He wanted to make good ones.
I received calls for Robert Garff, Bob Garff, Elder Garff, President Garff and Mr. Garff. I always had to ask which Mr. Garff they wanted, so I called him Robert. He had many titles, and received many awards, but whenever anybody would attempt to put him on a pedestal, he would simply reply, "I'm just Ol' Bob."
Bob was a special person to our family. A friend from the moment we met. He acted as our Home Teacher, and immediately set about following through with the things he drew out from us that we desired of him. He went the extra mile, to say the least.... moreBob was a special person to our family. A friend from the moment we met. He acted as our Home Teacher, and immediately set about following through with the things he drew out from us that we desired of him. He went the extra mile, to say the least.
His advice over the years to us regarding personal and family and Church service subjects was always helpful and deeply appreciated. Space and prudence proscribes greater elaboration here; suffice it to say we love Bob, and his memory will remain with us forever.
Our hearts go out to Kathy, who has lost her dear companion and best friend. less
President and Sister Garff we're and are the most amazing people You touched each of our lives personally and differenly. You taught us to love, guide and teach by knowing the Savior better. Yours and Kathy's love for the one ihas always been an example... morePresident and Sister Garff we're and are the most amazing people You touched each of our lives personally and differenly. You taught us to love, guide and teach by knowing the Savior better. Yours and Kathy's love for the one ihas always been an example to me
Thank you for all that did for me inECM. I know it was not easy but we loved you more than words could express.
Kathy and family you are in our prayers. Thank you for sharing your dad with us.
Becky Mooney Jensen less
As a Missionary, I couldn’t have had a more influential friend and leader to strive to pattern my life after. Thanks Garff Family for your great example of Service and Love for the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Bob will be greatly missed by all who knew... moreAs a Missionary, I couldn’t have had a more influential friend and leader to strive to pattern my life after. Thanks Garff Family for your great example of Service and Love for the Gospel of Jesus Christ. Bob will be greatly missed by all who knew him. His memory will continue to influence us to become better and live life to its full potential.
Travis Graff less
I am so honored to have had the chance to know Bob. Quite often when we met, it was at large university gatherings. Bob would always shake my hand, offer me a compliment, make me feel welcome and that I was just as important to him as the CEO or... moreI am so honored to have had the chance to know Bob. Quite often when we met, it was at large university gatherings. Bob would always shake my hand, offer me a compliment, make me feel welcome and that I was just as important to him as the CEO or university leader next to me. He was so kind to all of us at the Eccles School. I got to know him even better the past few months as we planned an event together at the U. Watching he and Kathi interact and banter was so fun - you could tell how much they loved each other, even when teasing each other. He was a great example of being a loving husband, father and grandfather. I'll sure miss this wonderful man. My deepest condolences to his entire family.
I'm sure that there will be many wonderful things spoken about Bob. I considered him a great example in my life. Our paths crossed when we were both involved in Ouellessebougou, Mali, Africa. He had travelled there at the same time we were there. I... moreI'm sure that there will be many wonderful things spoken about Bob. I considered him a great example in my life. Our paths crossed when we were both involved in Ouellessebougou, Mali, Africa. He had travelled there at the same time we were there. I was amazed to see how gentle he was and how much he cared for others. I once asked him what his secret was to be such a successful person. He did not claim to be successful, he simply responded that the cream always rises to the top. He suggested that I continue to push forward and do my best and things would take their proper place. He was a remarkable man, yes a man of his words, and a man for all seasons. Rest in peace my friend until we meet again. God bless! less
I’m so grateful for Bob Garff. He and Kathy have been loyal friends to my parents for as long as I can remember. For some reason, he noticed me in my youth and gave me the opportunity to serve as a missionary in The England Coventry Mission when I... moreI’m so grateful for Bob Garff. He and Kathy have been loyal friends to my parents for as long as I can remember. For some reason, he noticed me in my youth and gave me the opportunity to serve as a missionary in The England Coventry Mission when I was 19 years old. That mini-mission changed my life! It deepened my conversion to the Lord and gave me gospel roots that have helped me in my life. I don’t think a day goes by that I don’t think about that experience and feel grateful for the opportunity I had to serve. The people and places of England touched my heart forever.
I’m thankful to Bob and Kathy for the sweet way they mentored me that year. They were patient as I learned and made mistakes. For example, I remember sitting in my first training meeting at the mission home. As missionaries, we were asked to turn to a scripture in Enos. Because I hadn’t really read The Book of Mormon from cover to cover yet, I didn’t know who Enos was, so I frantically searched my Bible to find a book beginning with the letter E. I finally found a book called Ezra and hoped that nobody would notice. As you can see, I looked prepared from the outside and had a testimony of many important truths at the time, but discovered I was far from being prepared to represent the Lord. From that moment on, I humbly repented and began to study the scriptures. The Book of Mormon has since become my most treasured friend.
I remember well the wards where I served, the members and our investigators. I loved our spirit-filled zone conferences and our first-lesson challenge with the meal at the castle. I remember Melissa and her friend, Elizabeth, coming to our area for a few days. I also remember that when my six-month mark came along (my time to return home), I said to President Garff in tears, “You can’t send me home. I’m finally becoming an effective missionary. Please!” Thankfully, he let me stay an additional six months.
Bob and Kathy also kept in touch with me after my time in England. They sent me Christmas cards, came to my wedding and gave me special attention whenever our paths crossed. Years later, when my husband was called to preside over a mission for the Church, Bob and Kathy met us for breakfast at a restaurant to give us encouragement and advice.
I’ve read a few newspaper articles about Bob Garff since his passing and have been amazed at the important people he knew and all that he accomplished in our community. He leaves a great legacy. But I’m most impressed with the gentle, humble way he noticed regular people, like ME! less
We first met Bob and Kathi when they moved into our ward in Bountiful (Mueller Park 10th). We immediately learned that their many accomplishments had not diminished their basic goodness and humility, they loved everyone and we felt of their love. Our... moreWe first met Bob and Kathi when they moved into our ward in Bountiful (Mueller Park 10th). We immediately learned that their many accomplishments had not diminished their basic goodness and humility, they loved everyone and we felt of their love. Our deepest sympathies to Kathi and all of Bob's family, he truly made a difference.
With love, Jim and Shirley Ann less
The Buehler and Sorensen family have been taking some moments to reflect on the life of your dear, Robert Garff. My dad (Robert Buehler) reminded me that he first met Bob when he was a freshman at East High School. A few years... moreDear Garff Family,
The Buehler and Sorensen family have been taking some moments to reflect on the life of your dear, Robert Garff. My dad (Robert Buehler) reminded me that he first met Bob when he was a freshman at East High School. A few years later, my dad was preparing to leave for a 2 year mission to Australia. In those days, missionaries went to a mission home for a few days of training before leaving. Bob Garff was my dad's trainer and he felt the few days spent under Bob's teaching enriched his missionary skills. Little did my dad know, Bob Garff's teachings would continue to bless his life... and his future family.
Fast forward to 1978 and the Buehler family moved from Texas to Bountiful. We were blessed to enjoy Bob as our bishop and stake president. On a personal note, when I was 18 years old, Melissa invited me to come to Coventry, England for a month. It was my first time over-seas and I was nervous. Bob, Kathi and Melissa welcomed me warmly. Those few weeks spent in their mission home had a huge impact on me. Many nights, Bob and Kathi led us in a scripture study. I learned how to feast on the scriptures under wise direction. But the best sermon your dad provided me was how he treated people. He always made you feel special and important. He always had a ready smile and was asked about ones life with interest. He was generous beyond measure and was a builder of people. He and Kathi treated each other with love and respect. All these little examples left a large impression on my heart.
One Sunday in England, Bob and Kathi were to speak in a sacrament meeting. President Garff pulled me aside a few days prior and told me he would like ME to join the family and also speak. He must have know this would terrify me to the core, but he acted as if I was fully up to the challenge and didn't let me wiggle my way out of it. His vote of confidence in me made me feel like I could climb Mt. Everest!
A year or so ago, I ran into Bob at the Bountiful Temple. He hugged me warmly and I felt the love of the Lord. Soon after, while living in Seattle, I ran into Kathi, Mary and her girls at Pike's Market. We all were so happy to see each other! Both of these little encounters were a tender mercy in my life and provided moments of love. These little moments reminded me of a loving Father in Heaven who blesses us through rich friendships.
Bob and his sweet wife, Kathi, have inspired all of us to serve and lift others. We are equally appreciative to their children, Jenni, John, Melissa, Matt, Mary and their families for carrying on a legacy of love and excellence. Melissa has been my life-long friend and I count her as a cherished blessing.
We wish you peace and love during this tender time. If we could, our family would encircle you in a warm embrace and shed a few tears with you. We will all miss Robert Garff and feel grateful for the cherished memories we have of him. Thank you for being a wonderful family. We love you.
I have so many wonderful memories of time spent with Bob and the Garff family. I remember Bob hooting and hollering as he would ski through the trees in powder. I remember lots of adventures on horseback including through the Canadian Rockies. I remember... moreI have so many wonderful memories of time spent with Bob and the Garff family. I remember Bob hooting and hollering as he would ski through the trees in powder. I remember lots of adventures on horseback including through the Canadian Rockies. I remember trips to Heiner’s and the tree branch that Bob would always place to reassure us that the branch was holding up the very large boulder! I remember traveling to the Sacred Grove with our families and Bob invited us to look up at the tall trees that were reaching for the light. I think of him often when I look up at tall trees and am reminded of his message that we should always search for the light. I love him and his entire family and am so grateful for the impact he has had on me and my family. less
Bob and Kathi are most assuredly the epitome of goodness. Bob always met people with his heart wide open. His humanity and kindness is what struck me most and will forever reside in my heart. “Thank you for gracing my life with your lovely presence,... moreBob and Kathi are most assuredly the epitome of goodness. Bob always met people with his heart wide open. His humanity and kindness is what struck me most and will forever reside in my heart. “Thank you for gracing my life with your lovely presence, for adding the sweet measure of your soul to my existence.” - Richard Matheson less
I have been fortunate to know the Garff family for many years. My heart goes out Kathi and the entire Garff family. Every time I think of Bob it will bring a smile to my face. He brought pure joy to everyone who new him.
Bob Garff, who will always be “President Garff,” the man who presided over the England-Coventry Mission, was mentor who will always be important to me. He was a substantial influence in tempering my very intemperate youthful personality in the mid... moreBob Garff, who will always be “President Garff,” the man who presided over the England-Coventry Mission, was mentor who will always be important to me. He was a substantial influence in tempering my very intemperate youthful personality in the mid 1980’s. I will never forget the day in 1988 when he gave me a copy of “How to Win Friends and Influence People” and said, “you would really benefit from the ideas in this book.” No doubt he was thinking, “this kid really needs help” (which I did), but he was genuinely kind in the way he presented it. I read it then, and have read it several times since. He was right, I really needed pointers in the subjects covered by that book. He taught me much of what little I have learned about interpersonal relations. He was the first person from whom I ever heard the phrase, “There, but for the grace of God, go I,” which has become ever more meaningful to me over the years.
President Garff was the person that encouraged me to go to law school after I served a mission, when I was not sure whether I was lawyer material. Despite his very complicated life and huge network of “contacts,” President Garff still found the time to keep in touch with me occasionally over the years. Whenever I was lucky enough to speak to him, Pres. Garff would enthusiastically ask, “How are you and how is your lovely bride?” I always wondered at that, given that he only spoke to her briefly once many, many years ago. I finally decided that it must have been because the thing that was most important to him was his own family.
While I always knew President Garff lived a very full life and accomplished amazing things and was a man who walked in the circles of success, it always seemed to me that he spent most of his life trying to lift others, including me. As much as any other person, President Garff was responsible for changing the trajectory of my life from a road to nowhere to the one that led me to the usually comfortable circumstance I now enjoy. The world, including my little piece of it, is a much better place because of him and I have no doubt he will make whatever place he is in now better than it was before.
I am very sorry for the sadness that his passing will cause to those who loved him most, and I share in that sadness, but I wanted to add my voice to the many others who are grateful for his life, his kindness, and the wisdom with which he made the lives of others better. Few people manage to do as much good with their lives as President Garff did and I am grateful to have known him. less
We are devasted by Bob’s passing and send our deepest condolences to Kathi and the entire Garff family. Bob and Kathi Garff were among the first people I met when I arrived in Utah seven years ago. I will write about Bob here, but everything I say... moreWe are devasted by Bob’s passing and send our deepest condolences to Kathi and the entire Garff family. Bob and Kathi Garff were among the first people I met when I arrived in Utah seven years ago. I will write about Bob here, but everything I say applies to Kathi, too. Bob was always warm and welcoming. His love for the University of Utah was deep and abiding. His passion for helping students gain the life-changing benefits of a college degree was unwavering. Two very special memories are of Bob and Kathi, surrounded by family at the opening of the Robert H. and Katharine B. Garff Executive Education Building, and then at the groundbreaking for the Ken Garff Performance Zone at Rice-Eccles Stadium. These were such happy events and Bob’s joy was evident for all to see. These facilities will carry the Garff family name forever and we will always have Bob in our hearts. less
I have so many amazing memories of President Garff in England and my time in the office in Coventry. I got to see him away from regular missionary activities like their fun family photos and this night at the Castle. He always uplifted and made you... moreI have so many amazing memories of President Garff in England and my time in the office in Coventry. I got to see him away from regular missionary activities like their fun family photos and this night at the Castle. He always uplifted and made you feel great. I have loved to see him in his home since coming home. He always treated my wife and kids as part of his family. He even took time to meet with us and our son in the Bountiful Temple as our son was preparing to go on a mission. I am forever grateful for his positive influence in my life. Much Love to the Garff Family. less
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