Sandy's Memorial Service will be held via Zoom under the auspices of Birmingham Friends Meeting.
When Sandy and Doug moved back to eastern PA, they chose to make the home of their spiritual practice Birmingham Friends Meeting. This reconnected them with Sandy's practice when they first met, which included regular attendance on alternating Sundays at a Friends Meeting in Denver.
The service will be on Sunday, 21 March, 4-5 pm EDT, via Zoom. The Zoom meeting will open beginning at 3:45 pm EDT. (Information on joining the Zoom meeting is below.)
For those who may not be familiar with a Friends Memorial Meeting for Worship, we include below the content of a brochure from Philadelphia Yearly Meeting.
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[Revised by Philadelphia Yearly Meeting Publications Service Group, originally printed with permission of Wooster (Ohio) Monthly Meeting]
The Religious Society of Friends holds as the basis of its faith the belief that every human being is endowed with a measure of the Divine Sprit which may be directly experienced. Our manner of worship embodies this belief.
We gather in quiet assemblies, mindful of the words: "Be still, and know that I am God." We come together in reverent silence with the desire to draw nearer to God and to understand God's will.
For Friends a Memorial Meeting is similar in many ways to a Meeting for Worship. It is not only a time for sharing feelings of loss, but a time for celebrating the life of the departed person. We reflect on the value of that life as it relates to the lives of all of us.
All present share in this process. We sit quietly; at times an individual may be moved to speak, to offer a prayer or a message that has come out of the silence. All are welcome to do this.
The responsibility for the spiritual depth of the Meeting rests with each attender. Those who keep silence as well as those who give a vocal message do their part when they yield their minds and hearts to the guidance of the Spirit.
Friends hope that in the Meeting for Worship a consciousness of the Divine Presence will be felt by every attender, and will be a source of direction, strength, and comfort after leaving the Meeting.
Giving
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We created a GatheringUs memorial to celebrate the life of Sandra Dawn Essinger-Hileman. Collecting your stories and memories here will offer us great comfort. Click on the heart to let us know you were here and to receive email updates. Thank you for contributing to this lasting memorial.
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We created a GatheringUs memorial to celebrate the life of Sandra Dawn Essinger-Hileman. Collecting your stories and memories here will offer us great comfort. Click on the heart to let us know you were here and to receive email updates. Thank you for contributing to this lasting memorial.Sandy was a wonderful wife, mother, sister, and daughter in addition to being a friend to many. She was loving, kind, and generous. She was a great... see moreWe created a GatheringUs memorial to celebrate the life of Sandra Dawn Essinger-Hileman. Collecting your stories and memories here will offer us great comfort. Click on the heart to let us know you were here and to receive email updates. Thank you for contributing to this lasting memorial.
Sandy was a wonderful wife, mother, sister, and daughter in addition to being a friend to many. She was loving, kind, and generous. She was a great listener and gave wise counsel. She led by example and was thoughtful about the causes that she supported. Fond memories from her children include how Sandy would sing them to sleep, bake goodies for their birthdays, share good book recommendations, and give the best hugs. Memories from others carry impressions of grace, kindness, patience, and genuine loving charm.
Sandy was always a light in her family’s life and her light was felt by all around her. Throughout her life, Sandy served others in many capacities. The majority of her adult life she served as a pastor, and she also worked in the service industry. Later in her life, she and Doug had dreams of merging the two but Sandy did not live to see those dreams become a reality. In everything she did, Sandy put serving other people above all.
To support causes important to Sandy, help in creating a Memorial Garden to honor her, and help with funeral expenses, please contribute to the Sandy Essinger-Hileman Memorial Fund.