Artist Trust is a nonprofit dedicated to helping Washington State artists of all disciplines thrive. Founded... moreArtist Trust is a nonprofit dedicated to helping Washington State artists of all disciplines thrive. Founded in 1986, they were formed by a group of artists and arts lovers who came together to create support for art at its source: the artist. Since then, Artist Trust has invested over $10 million in Washington State artists through funding, trainings, and resources and has provided programs that meet the changing needs of artists. Artist Trust helps artists establish and maintain careers through direct support, connections, and advocacy. less
Goodbye, my Sweet Girl! We all miss you. I know that you wanted to show the world beauty and now we can see your beauty in all the light. You are so loved and you are the most beautiful thing to me. Sleep well, my beautiful Artist...
OBITUARY
This is a space for Tiffani's family and friends to share memories of our beautiful girl. I want you to feel free to share and find some closure. Whether it is just stories, pictures, simple thoughts or even just reading posts, it's appreciated. The world needs more love and I love you for being here.
Tiffani's dream was to show the world more beauty. You can help her do that today. She struggled with depression for a good portion of... see more
This is a space for Tiffani's family and friends to share memories of our beautiful girl. I want you to feel free to share and find some closure. Whether it is just stories, pictures, simple thoughts or even just reading posts, it's appreciated. The world needs more love and I love you for being here.
Tiffani's dream was to show the world more beauty. You can help her do that today. She struggled with depression for a good portion of her life. All of her fears and anxieties of how she was lacking were sadly the exact things she had in abundance. She left us too early, so please tell a creative person in your life they are enough and matter.
"Come on sweetheart let’s adore one another before there is no more of you and me" -Rumi
Once we are through these difficult times and it's safe to be together, I will be planning one hell of a celebration. I'll keep everyone posted on dates and times.
Artist Trust was an important organization for her. She volunteered for the auction every year, and we have a close friend that was a board member.
Tiffani loved to interact with other artists that inspired her to be one herself. Other artists were "her people" that made up a tribe of creatives that she so much wanted to belong. She greatly wanted that community to see her and recognize her spirit, talent, and beauty.
She would have felt such pride and gratitude if her artwork could have been a part of that community. For some reason, it was hard for her to feel like she deserved that place in our society.
On her behalf, help spark artists in the corporate world to take the first step in realizing they are essential, and their work and talents need to inspire more humanity and meaning than profit. In the end, it's not about what we consume, but what inspires us to see more beauty within ourselves that makes the people in our lives and places we work, live, and visit spectacular.
Just add "For Tiffani Aerts" as an honoree in the "Additional Information" section or donate anonymously if you feel compelled that way.
Art with Heart is another organization that we both contributed as board members and volunteers. They use the healing power of art to help kids in trauma and/or adversity find peace. We didn't have kids of our own, but Tiffani never wanted to see any kid in our life in pain and unable to express their grief, fear, or anxiety. It's mental health, and it's important!
They've helped thousands of kids deal with loss and trauma and want to help millions more. Therapists create the tools they provide with artwork from amazing artists.
There are times that I catch myself looking at your picture on our mantle, wishing that we would have had more time. We find it hard to go to the restaurants where we shared copious amounts of wine and laughter. I just miss you. I miss your wit,... moreThere are times that I catch myself looking at your picture on our mantle, wishing that we would have had more time. We find it hard to go to the restaurants where we shared copious amounts of wine and laughter. I just miss you. I miss your wit, intellects, creativity and spirit. Raising a tearful glass to you today. less
Oh Tiffani. It’s your birthday and I went to your Facebook page to say happy birthday and saw that you had passed. Brent and I are just so heartbroken but we love you and hope you are at peace now. The portrait you painted of us for my wedding gift to... moreOh Tiffani. It’s your birthday and I went to your Facebook page to say happy birthday and saw that you had passed. Brent and I are just so heartbroken but we love you and hope you are at peace now. The portrait you painted of us for my wedding gift to Brent sits on my dresser and every time I look at it, I think of you. I’m sorry I wasn’t better about reaching out over the years. We love you, friend. Happy birthday. less
It was 2013, May 11th, when I proposed to this beautiful woman up on the Sunshine Coast in BC. We made a wonderful dinner together and I had her close her eyes while I said this poem and put the ring in her hand. I miss her everyday!
Dear Cynthia,This is a very beautiful question and I am grateful that you have asked it. It seems to me, that if we love, we grieve. That’s the deal...
Our precious Munchkin...loved beyond words and worlds. There's no way to measure or verbalize what this death at her own hand has done to our family. The pain and grief of knowing that somehow she didn't comprehend the depth of our love, our commitment... moreOur precious Munchkin...loved beyond words and worlds. There's no way to measure or verbalize what this death at her own hand has done to our family. The pain and grief of knowing that somehow she didn't comprehend the depth of our love, our commitment to her and our immeasurable grief that will accompany us for the rest of our lives. The questions, the regrets and the longing for her will last forever.
We pray that she has found peace in the arms of her Shepherd. That she now knows fully the length and breadth and height and depth of true unconditional love and beauty. 👠 👢 💋 💄 💔 💔 💔 less
Our family was privileged to meet Tiffani on a beautiful wedding weekend. She was a delightful woman with love for family and friends. She is and will be sorely missed.
With much love,
Brian, Elaine, Joshua, Joseph, Daniel, JoyAnna, &Rebekah... moreOur family was privileged to meet Tiffani on a beautiful wedding weekend. She was a delightful woman with love for family and friends. She is and will be sorely missed.
With much love,
Brian, Elaine, Joshua, Joseph, Daniel, JoyAnna, &Rebekah Landeene, Anna & Austin Dannen less
Hey little blonde imp with the lovely, sparkling smile - and oh, that giggle! Over the fence and watching you play next door. Coming to see us and explore, holding Dyani's hand. Listening to how our children adored you - the baby next door. Moving... moreHey little blonde imp with the lovely, sparkling smile - and oh, that giggle! Over the fence and watching you play next door. Coming to see us and explore, holding Dyani's hand. Listening to how our children adored you - the baby next door. Moving away from you and watching you grow through your parents' correspondence and pride of their words. Loving your parents, who had so much to give you and gave you so much. Lucky little girl! Never ever would I have believed this was to be your end on earth and beginning in heaven. I wish someone could have helped you understand that there were so many joyful days coming when you would be so happy, you couldn't hold it all. Praying for you to find peace where you are now, little dove. less
I only knew Tiffani for a short time. We met at a small retreat in September, and out of the small group of participants, I spent the most time with her. She had such a warm demeanor, and I felt comfortable with her right away. We talked (or more aptly... moreI only knew Tiffani for a short time. We met at a small retreat in September, and out of the small group of participants, I spent the most time with her. She had such a warm demeanor, and I felt comfortable with her right away. We talked (or more aptly put, bragged) about our partners and our families; shared some of our personal struggles and our hopes for the future.
During that weekend we spent time in silence, grounding outside in the rain right after the wildfire smoke cleared, relaxed into a sound bath, ate delicious meals, and danced late into the night to all types of music. We also celebrated our birthdays (mine was that weekend and her's was the following) with a lovely ritual where the retreat leader handed us each a candle and asked us to share our greatest blessing and greatest challenge from the past year and what we hoped to manifest in the year to come. It was a joyful, powerful, meaningful time.
On the last day of the retreat, we were led in an exercise where we paired up with our "teachers." Our task was to create a garland out of marigolds and other objects to "crown" our teacher with, along with presenting them with eight qualities and/or blessings. Tiffani and I were paired up, and she made me the most beautiful garland, which is still hanging in my home. After the retreat, we sent our teachers the eight qualities we presented to them so they would remember them moving forward. What I wrote Tiffani is below, and the photos are from the crowning ceremony when we first shared them with each other.
I feel incredibly grateful to have met and gotten to know Tiffani, if only a glimpse and if only for a short time. I am grieving the loss of what could have been, and I can only imagine what this loss feels like for those who had the opportunity to know her so much better and for much longer. I will certainly not forget Tiffani's brilliant light.
8 Qualities for your Remembering:
I see your deep intuition, your groundedness, and your expansive wisdom. I see your intentional thoughtfulness in how you pay attention to the people around you and offer them things they may not have known they needed with a graceful, giving spirit. I see your creativity and your generosity. I see your immense strength and your immeasurable worthiness. less
I know you were the only sister I had but, you were the best big sister a little brother could ask God for. Yes, I am biased. Your gorgeous smile, quick wit, stunning voice, and all around beautiful heart and soul will... moreDearest Tiffani and Big Sister,
I know you were the only sister I had but, you were the best big sister a little brother could ask God for. Yes, I am biased. Your gorgeous smile, quick wit, stunning voice, and all around beautiful heart and soul will be dearly and sorely missed. Know that you were cherished and loved from the moment we met 34+ years ago. From the times of protecting me from "mean" big brother (humor added), to helping me with French, seeing me off to war, surprising me for my birthday, and having multiple wonderful conversations of which, our last was one of (if not) the best, your life added so much to mine; and I know others life as well. Your hugs were legendary along with the rest of you and I am grateful to God that we were able to share one of the best hugs ever before parting. I hope you have found peace amongst God's angels and have added to their beautiful song. I Love You. "I will see you again...but not yet, not yet" 😥 😭 🙏 ❤ 💔 less
Beautiful Tiffani...it is still very difficult to put together words right now to describe the love that our family has for you. How much we miss you and wish you were still here with us. I wish we could have known the pain you were in and helped you,... moreBeautiful Tiffani...it is still very difficult to put together words right now to describe the love that our family has for you. How much we miss you and wish you were still here with us. I wish we could have known the pain you were in and helped you, sweet girl.
I want to say how grateful I am that you were a part of our wedding and our lives. The pictures will last a lifetime and will be beautiful memories. Your smile, the beautiful pink dress you wore that embodied your wonderful taste, and the help that you offered in making the flower arrangements were so special. One of the most difficult part's of your loss, Tiffani, is the way my husband, your youngest brother fell apart. He loves you soooo much and misses his sister everyday. I know that you love him too and we will hold on to that love. Rest in peace beautiful girl, we love you and miss you. less
I have not posted until now because this is just... so.... devastating. Tiffani was almost a "second mom" and best friend to me since we were 13. There are no words to quantify it, to communicate appropriately the depth of loss of what a shining light... moreI have not posted until now because this is just... so.... devastating. Tiffani was almost a "second mom" and best friend to me since we were 13. There are no words to quantify it, to communicate appropriately the depth of loss of what a shining light has been lost to the world, to all of us. I've gone through various stages of loss up until this moment, when I am spilling my feelings here on this page..... laughter seems to help, but also crying to beautiful music that reminds me of her... singing through tears, playing the piano I sometimes stop and cry, then play the rest of the piece. I have been ok, ok, ok, NOT ok so many times... life goes on, but it doesn't feel right that I move on with my life and NOT think of her, not feel the sadness, but I must. I have to be there for my kids, I have to just do life. She would want me to. But I also want to honor those moments when I feel her presence with me, and see her smile, hear her words in my mind, and remember her. It's still a shock each time I realize she's gone.
Because sometimes it's helpful to laugh at my own musical expression of my sadness.....(sung to the tune of Oh Christmas tree):
Oh Tiffani... Oh Tiffani, how is it you have left us (2x's)
Your smile it always shined so bright, your words they comfort me tonight,
Oh Tiffani, Oh Tiffani... How is it you have left us?
A regal quality you had, poise, grace and kindness, miss you bad
Oh Tiffani Oh Tiffani, how is it you have left us?
To Tiffani - There really isn't anyone who matches up to your generous, kind, funny, witty, talented, gorgeous, wise, reassuring, and amazing self.... You were such, SUCH a friend... You never had me question your love or devotion to me, not once. Now that you're not here...I just don't know what I'll do. What happens when someone you have known for 28 years just disappears? I can hear your voice still... And your singing resonates in my soul...I've just always gone through life knowing you had my back and whenever I needed to call you, you'd be there... And now you're not...... Is 2020 over yet? less
Words seem so inadequate. Tiffani was an extraordinary human being: smart and witty, creative and talented, clever with a radiant smile. Beautiful and always stylish, empathetic and compassionate, generous and giving, and kind, always kind. She was so... moreWords seem so inadequate. Tiffani was an extraordinary human being: smart and witty, creative and talented, clever with a radiant smile. Beautiful and always stylish, empathetic and compassionate, generous and giving, and kind, always kind. She was so emotionally perceptive, and could surprise me when she remembered small details, or would check in with me on something I didn't even remember sharing with her. When she spoke with you, she made you feel like you were the most important person in the world to her at that moment, and in many ways I think you were.
I have so many wonderful memories with her, it still takes my breath away when I think that there won't be any more. In my mind, I can still hear her voice, that delighted laugh, see that smile, and my heart can't reconcile the loss. Tiffani, you are so loved, and you are so, so missed. less
Meeting you will forever be one of the things I’m most grateful for. You will always be my most favorite person to watch dance. You were so free and mesmerizing and filled my heart with happiness. I will miss that. I loved our wine nights and I will... moreMeeting you will forever be one of the things I’m most grateful for. You will always be my most favorite person to watch dance. You were so free and mesmerizing and filled my heart with happiness. I will miss that. I loved our wine nights and I will always think of you when I have a Bordeaux and dance. I love you! less
I called you Tiffania in my mind.
You always had something of the fae about you.
With grace in your fingertips and butterflies for hair
You danced slow to fast music and could draw energy around like a cape- worn like the queen that you are
You laughed... moreI called you Tiffania in my mind.
You always had something of the fae about you.
With grace in your fingertips and butterflies for hair
You danced slow to fast music and could draw energy around like a cape- worn like the queen that you are
You laughed at the silly - laughed with me so often
Made funny faces
You’d giggle and HA when it struck you and laughter is what the moment brought out
Your ear always tuned to the need of a friend
Compassion and courage and sorrow and grief
All part of your story, your core
Light and beauty and laughter and
Not enough time.
For us who love you. There could never be enough time.
We were supposed to be old together, my sister, my duchess. Drinking wine and coffee and cocktails and well - drinking and dancing
You are deep like a well
A well that brought beauty out of the depths for those who came wishing
Dear Scott, sending so much love...Tiffani was a force of nature, vibrant and beautiful and inspiring, and will be greatly missed. She was a gifted artist and a lovely person, and we're grateful to have known her. Thinking of you and sending good... moreDear Scott, sending so much love...Tiffani was a force of nature, vibrant and beautiful and inspiring, and will be greatly missed. She was a gifted artist and a lovely person, and we're grateful to have known her. Thinking of you and sending good energy.
Dear Kitty,
I can’t believe the world just lost such a vibrant, talented and bright spirit. So many memories of Lending Help Desk days at WAMU come rushing back. I loved your wit, style and smile. I remember hearing your beautiful voice at one of the... moreDear Kitty,
I can’t believe the world just lost such a vibrant, talented and bright spirit. So many memories of Lending Help Desk days at WAMU come rushing back. I loved your wit, style and smile. I remember hearing your beautiful voice at one of the department holiday parties. There was nothing you couldn’t do. I am so sorry you didn’t know how we saw you and the positive impact you made on our lives. Thank you for sharing your light. You will be so missed! less
In September 1998 a young and talented student from the university of Washington arrived in Montpellier for a year abroad experience.
I recall her smile and eagerness to discover more of the French way of life... Her spoken French was outstanding at the... moreIn September 1998 a young and talented student from the university of Washington arrived in Montpellier for a year abroad experience.
I recall her smile and eagerness to discover more of the French way of life... Her spoken French was outstanding at the time.
In those days, I was a young professor, newly married with my Spanish love Yolanda and starting a new job as US students program director for our university, Paul Valery Montpellier France.
During the 9 months in Montpellier the group of students and my self shared a slice of our mutual lives.....
Tiffani was among the most outgoing and gifted students of her group and we soon became friends....
A friendship that ,despite the distance ,continued over the years. We later met in Seattle on two occasions and shared a good sense of humor.
I found out this morning the sad news and feel devastated...It's so unfair to lose her so soon.
To her loved ones, family , husband Scott please accept my most sincere condolences.
I will always remember Tiffani and I do share your sorrow and pain.
Dear beautiful friends of Tiffani, if you'd like to receive updates from Scott in the weeks and months to come, and if you'd like to learn more about how Tiffani's life will be celebrated, please add your contact info here. Thank you! ... moreDear beautiful friends of Tiffani, if you'd like to receive updates from Scott in the weeks and months to come, and if you'd like to learn more about how Tiffani's life will be celebrated, please add your contact info here. Thank you! https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1d30MH_H2nWmaimqKtFo_YZWumWKpjaWRZKKho3Qrf5k/edit#gid=0less
Tiffani, my friend, my friend’s wife, my wife's best friend, I remember meeting you for the first time. Driving with Suzannah out to Magnolia to meet her longest-standing friend, her best friend, I was worried, intimidated! You were exotic and... moreTiffani, my friend, my friend’s wife, my wife's best friend, I remember meeting you for the first time. Driving with Suzannah out to Magnolia to meet her longest-standing friend, her best friend, I was worried, intimidated! You were exotic and mysterious and your approval important to me. I was in awe of you then. You were so cool, so beautiful, and I hoped you considered me worthy of Suzannah's hand. That's also the day I met the Doktor, when he was still a tiny kitten climbing your leg in the kitchen. 😁
You were Suzannah's compliment in all the areas I'm lame. I'm so glad she’s had you to share her love and passion for dance, music, travel, culture. My heart aches that she can share that with you no longer.
Nine years ago you wrote to me, asking my thoughts on leaving Microsoft. I wish we had pursued that conversation more. It was rare to see you at work, but always a delight.
When you moved to Anacortes I was worried we would see you and Scott less. But that turned out to be wrong; we got to visit more often and for longer! Camping next to your house, seeing the deer in the morning, quiet neighborhood walks, hikes by the ocean, hearing the ferry fog-horn and the herons “serenade” from your neighbor's tree, late nights around the fire… visits with you were a blessing.
I was really looking forward to helping build your artist studio in your backyard, and seeing what you would create in it.
I loved your relationship with my son. I looked forward to the influence his Aunty Tiffani would have on him as he grew. He will never appreciate his loss.
In the week since your passing, the world has seemed darker, colors dimmer, music muted, love painful. We have lost a magnificent soul and beautiful friend. less
Oh Tif,
I’ve been thinking of you non stop my friend. I have so many wishes. I wish it hadn’t been so long since I last saw your gorgeous face. I wish I hadn’t taken for granted that there would always be a next time. I am so very thankful that you... moreOh Tif,
I’ve been thinking of you non stop my friend. I have so many wishes. I wish it hadn’t been so long since I last saw your gorgeous face. I wish I hadn’t taken for granted that there would always be a next time. I am so very thankful that you were in my life. You were such a wonderful friend and just a truly lovely human being. I’m going to do my best to honor your memory by fostering and nurturing as much artistic beauty in this difficult world as I can. less
Words can’t begin to express the mark you’ve left on my heart, or the pain and sadness I feel at your loss. Thank you so much for the years of friendship. Your beauty, intelligence, strength, style, laughter, and creativity will be with me always.... moreWords can’t begin to express the mark you’ve left on my heart, or the pain and sadness I feel at your loss. Thank you so much for the years of friendship. Your beauty, intelligence, strength, style, laughter, and creativity will be with me always. Though you are terribly missed, I know you are around me in everything beautiful I see. Til we meet again. Love you. less
You're the last thought in my mind as I fall asleep to images of you smiling your wry smile. You're the first thought that reaches me upon waking up each morning. Your grace, creativity, subtle humor, style, poise, gravitas, and elegance inspired me to... moreYou're the last thought in my mind as I fall asleep to images of you smiling your wry smile. You're the first thought that reaches me upon waking up each morning. Your grace, creativity, subtle humor, style, poise, gravitas, and elegance inspired me to be a better human, Tiffani Dianna Aertz. May your soul finally discover the peace you deserve so much. I love you and will do my best to honor your memory and keep your spark alive. less
May the road rise to meet you, May the wind be at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face, May the rain fall softly on your fields
And until we meet again
May you keep safe
In the gentle loving arms of God
Love you Tiff and will carry your... moreMay the road rise to meet you, May the wind be at your back
May the sun shine warm upon your face, May the rain fall softly on your fields
And until we meet again
May you keep safe
In the gentle loving arms of God
Love you Tiff and will carry your memory forever with me. Until we meet again my dear friend less
I am still genuinely in shock and can’t quite find the right words to express how much she meant to me. We went to Chicago together, went surfing every summer, paragliding in Maui, had long talks, shopped in Seattle, shared a love of makeup, painted... moreI am still genuinely in shock and can’t quite find the right words to express how much she meant to me. We went to Chicago together, went surfing every summer, paragliding in Maui, had long talks, shopped in Seattle, shared a love of makeup, painted and even learned some painting skills from her. You name it, we did it. It’s been a wild ride these past few years from so much loss but this one sits differently. Depression is a dark and horrid thing. I love you, Tiffani.
“Sometimes, you’ll have a couple of good days. and then it hits you. Everything. It hurts to talk, to love, to be. Existing is so difficult at times but no one wants to hear that. No one wants to know about the days you spend crying or curled up in a corner somewhere or wishing you could be anywhere but here. We all have our ways of coping with it. We all have our very own acts of survival. Our ways of staying alive when we’re in too much pain to feel anything at all. I get it. This isn’t life anymore. This is just about getting through the day. I hope that one day it’ll be something more than that.”
- Unknown
I wish that she could’ve known how much more to life there was. less
Tiffani Aerts is an American encaustic artist, fashion designer & singer.
She is best known for her work exploring archetypes and color through
themes of the natural world, beauty, and the feminine.
Oh Tiff, you beautiful woman. You gorgeous, talented, gifted, soulful being. You will be missed beyond words for as long as we all live. Thank you for sharing your light with us for as long a as you could. May your sweet soul float along every sunset... moreOh Tiff, you beautiful woman. You gorgeous, talented, gifted, soulful being. You will be missed beyond words for as long as we all live. Thank you for sharing your light with us for as long a as you could. May your sweet soul float along every sunset and sunrise forever. less
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