Timothy M. Evans

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September 1, 2021

At the one year mark, the thought of condensing my relationship with my dad into a few paragraphs or trying to put into words to what it meant to be his son, feels overwhelming. Words could never adequately describe what he meant to me. 

He told me... more

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August 24, 2021

I have been meaning to share this and I'm so sorry for these belated words. Anne - Andre and I were so impacted by our brief but powerful time together with you and Tim when we met at the gender equity (forgot the name!) conference in 2015/2016. Over... more

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August 23, 2021

A year later and still can't believe it, we miss him so much. Always intentional, full of life, and so much fun. "Papa E" to our kids. We learned by watching how he lived, how he loved Anne and his children, their spouses and then his... more

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- August 23, 2021

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August 22, 2021

Wow. When I personally reflect on the past year without the daily influence of Tim in my/our lives, it is one with daily reminders of all the elements of our friendship that we no longer have. Three hundred and sixty-five days of little losses and... moreWow. When I personally reflect on the past year without the daily influence of Tim in my/our lives, it is one with daily reminders of all the elements of our friendship that we no longer have. Three hundred and sixty-five days of little losses and misses. My process has gone from, “What would Tim say right now?” and “I wish I could call Tim: he would know the answer”…and, “Dang it!!!” There is no outlet for the value he was to me; the brotherly relationship I needed (given the loss of my real brothers)—the joking, laughing and sisterly jeering one would expect, to the deeply Biblically informed vault of knowledge with intense scripture always on the tip of his toung. When I was in spiritual conflict, I called Tim. He always has an answer, if not THE answer. And he always prayed for me, whether we spoke 4 times a week or just once every other week. Tim always pointed me to the Lord.

These days, our household is alight with Tim’s common wisdoms and sayings. When a problem or a perplexed moment arises my girls say, “I’ll bet Uncle Tim would say this _______! (and they fill in the blank of the moment.) This is always met with smiling and assured joy because his memory is ALL good and all comforting.

So, over the year, we’ve gone from shock to despair (not literally being able to access Tim), to through God’s grace, slowly being able to gather up the memories and clutch his wisdoms therefore, in a quiver if you will, and pluck them out as needed. Sometimes we turn to his books to know, “Oh yeh, this is what he told me on the phone that one time and it’s what he say again if I could call him right now.”

It’s not the same of course. But as time goes by, our memories are more clear. In the early days when Keith was horribly distraught, one of Keith’s colleagues said to him, it is awful to lose your mentor, but you will always have his wisdom.” And so that is what we’ve hung onto and focused on, as we’ve assembled (and continue to gather up) our most cherished memories.

Tim’s wisdom/s and hilarity will always bring me comfort. I cherish the gazillions of conversations, laughs and moments. I miss his brotherly, huggy style-of -greeting, his vernaculars, his happy blue eyes, zest for life and the vault of Godly truth he carried with him everywhere!

Tim Evans, I thank my God each time I remember you. Philippians 1:3 less

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August 22, 2021

It has been a year since my best friend, Spiritual Father, and all around best guy, Tim Evans, went home to be with our Good Father. I’ve missed him almost every day since.

At first the grief and loneliness was so palpable. Tim and I used to talk... moreIt has been a year since my best friend, Spiritual Father, and all around best guy, Tim Evans, went home to be with our Good Father. I’ve missed him almost every day since.

At first the grief and loneliness was so palpable. Tim and I used to talk almost every week on Wednesday mornings. He was like a father to me. I missed Tim so much, and still do. But as the days stretched to weeks and months, I started thinking more about all Tim left me with and this these thoughts began to overcome the aching loss. Tim's wisdom, faith, jokes, sayings and friendship began to have a new echo in our home - one full of happy memories, his favorite sayings, and his shared wisdom. "Remember when Uncle Tim said...." has become a refrain.

Some of Tim's last words to me the week he passed were these: “Keith remember when you're down (because that day I was) to think about good things, don’t get bogged down by the lies of the enemy. Then he quoted and told me a story about his spiritual father Dick Swetman, and their love for this verse: Philippians 4:8 (whatever is Nobel, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable, if anything is excellent or praiseworthy think on such things. Whatever you have learned or received or heard from me or seen in me - put it into practice. And the God of peace will be with you ).

This last verse Tim shared with me seems so appropriate to what he left me, my family, and so many others - a pathway forward. He didn’t live a life stuck in the past - Tim chased tomorrow, and loved God, and loved loving others. He was the most encouraging person I have ever known. Tim lived a very vibrant and alive faith - and did so on the outside - he walked it, talked it, loved it, embraced it - and he shared that love of God everyone he knew. That’s the legacy - and that his echoing encouragement.

Thanks for this final encouragement and all you left us with Tim. I will forever love you and miss you.

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August 21, 2021

The Evans family was such a big part of my childhood. I have such fond memories of Mr. Evans growing up. Bringing the fire truck to our block parties, taking Cate and I to the movies, riding on the back of his motorcycle (even though I was terrified).... more

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- August 22, 2021

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August 21, 2021

A MAN that loved the LORD and his FAMILY, with all his heart and soul departed us a year ago. He was a neighbor, mentor, spiritual brother, but most of all a friend. I miss having breakfast or lunch with my friend, and the routine we went through. ... more

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August 21, 2021

When I think about Tim, it's hard not to feel so blessed and grateful that God placed this man in mine and my family's lives. I considered Tim the Big Brother I never had. Boy do I miss his Hugs....he was the best hugger, wasn't he?
It was sweet to read... moreWhen I think about Tim, it's hard not to feel so blessed and grateful that God placed this man in mine and my family's lives. I considered Tim the Big Brother I never had. Boy do I miss his Hugs....he was the best hugger, wasn't he?
It was sweet to read our daughters message about how her new neighbors took away her and her brothers personal "play ground" and how God had so much more in store for her and her relationship with Tim and Anne...that they would eventually stand before her and her best friend and marry them. That story was one of many stories the Gieck family were so fortunate to share with the Evans Family.
God always has such better plans for us than what we could ever think, placing Tim and Anne in our lives at the precise time in our lives was no coincidence. Two amazing, life giving people who are so faithful to God were placed just outside our back door.
As a young couple with growing children, Tim, Anne, Danny and I sat around the kitchen table, sometimes for hours longer than any of us expected and shared life. Our stories, come to find out were similar and we connected almost immediately.
The constant laughter, big bear hugs, the occasional fish hook, always, always words of encouragement, and reminders of how much we are loved by our Good Father were mostly what our kitchen table conversations consisted of. Danny and I would always walk back home with a greater sense of grace, mercy, wisdom and joy in our hearts.
What fun Cranksgiving always was! Such an honor to be a part of that special tradition in your family.
Our trip to Chicago for Cate and Darrens wedding was a special trip and you all made Danny and I feel like family. We loved getting the personal tour of where Tim and Anne grew up, eating the best food and traveling on Spirit Airline...as one passenger said "you gotta have Spirit to fly Spirit" Such a fun trip, thanks so much Evans family for letting us be a part of your family.
I miss the times of coming home and seeing an empty Corona bottle on the front porch...we knew full well that Tim had sat on our porch to people watch while we were away. Even when he wasn't right there in person, he still had a way to bring a smile to my face. I just miss him!
Anne, Timmy, Amy, Curt, Colleen, Johnny,Cate, Darren, Joel, Grace, Jack, Trey, Emma, and Baby Jay....boy oh boy, your husband, dad and Pop Pop loved you all so! I know you all know that, but he also made that very well known to everyone he came in contact with.
Every memory I have of Tim is one that is Life Giving. He was an amazing model on how one should live life. He lived every day to the fullest and was always full of Joy!
I am so grateful that my husband had Tim as his friend, he and Tim could talk about everything, and he was always there for Danny to help him process big decisions, to have real and honest conversations, he "got" Danny and their friendship was rich and real. I always knew that Danny would come back from a lunch or breakfast with Tim more encouraged and full of faith. Such a gift not only to Danny, but to me, as I knew Danny had someone in his life that had his best interest at heart and would always tell him what he needed to hear. Like our good Father, Tim was always for Danny, for us.

Thank you for sharing your special Husband, Dad and Pop Pop with us, with all of us who have written on this page to tribute an incredible man of God.

With love to you all today and always,

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August 21, 2021

What a beautiful tribute and legacy of a life so very well lived! Tim was a man after God's own heart. If we were to share all of what Tim imparted into our lives we could write a book. He was a man unlike any we have known.
These 3 stories show... moreWhat a beautiful tribute and legacy of a life so very well lived! Tim was a man after God's own heart. If we were to share all of what Tim imparted into our lives we could write a book. He was a man unlike any we have known.
These 3 stories show some of who Tim was for us.
1. Many years ago Tim and Anne gave us a tent stake with the verse Is. 54:2 on it. “Increase is coming, so enlarge your tent and add extensions to your dwelling. Hold nothing back! Make the tent ropes longer and the pegs stronger" They were challenging us to believe in the goodness of God, to break out of our boxes of traditional thinking and make room for what God has in store. There is so much good ahead! We still have this tent peg on our desk. It reminds us every day of the goodness of God and how there's always more.

2. One of the last times we saw Tim in person was in May of 2019. We were in a season of grieving with loss of my mom and several other things. We had lunch with our dear friends Tim and Anne. And in Tim's tender, beautiful, prophetic way he listened intently to what we had to say. Then he stood up, came across to the other side of the table, laid his hand on our shoulders and shared that he was flipping up a light switch on our backs. He declared that God was turning the joy and the light back on in our lives and telling us the best was yet ahead! Stay the course and you will see victory! And he was right!

3. Then several months later we were all in Texas together to see Emma's Mary Poppins play. What a joy and delight it was to be together! There was so much laughter, lots of hugs, rejoicing and pure delight. This was Tim - the one who was always so full of life. What beautiful memories and incredible truths we carry because of Tim!

Tim was so very proud of each and every one of you. As he would say, 'When God opens His wallet, you are His very first picture'.

May you all feel Tim flipping up that light switch on your back declaring that the joy and light will be stronger than ever in your lives and the best is yet ahead! Stay the course, Team Hope. You are victorious!

We love you all and as Tim would say, 'we carry you as a prayer in our hearts'.
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August 21, 2021

I love reading all of your beautiful words about such an amazing man! What an inspiration to love others well. I'm not sure I have ever felt so cared for by someone who I have spent such little time with.... he had a way of making you feel soooo... more

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- August 21, 2021

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August 21, 2021

It has been good for my soul to read the different entries made on the memorial site over this past year. It is healing to hear stories of my dad and the impact he had on others. Whether on the website or in conversations and emails, I have heard... more

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- August 21, 2021
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August 21, 2021 · via iPhone

I can’t believe my dad has been gone for a year. I miss him so much and yet have so much to be thankful for when I think about being his daughter. I can literally picture him with a huge smile on his face giving me two thumbs up. That’s who he... moreI can’t believe my dad has been gone for a year. I miss him so much and yet have so much to be thankful for when I think about being his daughter. I can literally picture him with a huge smile on his face giving me two thumbs up. That’s who he was---a source of endless encouragement and joy. Everyone’s biggest cheerleader. He was always in your corner.

My dad absolutely loved life and more specifically his life. He was the most content and joy filled person I’ve ever known. He loved people, invested in people and believed the best in people.

Dad always used to say one man’s trash is another man’s treasure and I think about how this applied to his life—he saw the most broken things in people and yet always took the time to mine out the gold. If there was good, he’d find it. He was a true treasure hunter---always determined to see value and worth in the smallest of things.

One of the best gifts Dad gave me was the love he had for my mom. They were truly ONE in every sense of the word. They modeled oneness, unity, and living out God’s design for marriage. They both passionately believed that marriage was the best thing that ever happened to them and they inspired others to believe that could be true in their marriage too. Dad loved mom wildly and without reservation giving us a glimpse into the radical love that God has for us. The gift of seeing this kind of love is something his kids and grandkids will always remember and treasure.

Dad lived his life following Jesus with unshakable faith and the belief that the best is always yet to come. I think almost every time dad prayed out loud it included the phrase MAY THE JOY OF THE LORD BE YOUR STRENGTH—-it’s like he was saying it in PURE CAPITAL LETTERS which we know he loved to do. One of his life verses was Philippians 4:4-8 Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near. Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

We honor your life and your legacy walking in joy and peace, Dad. We will continue to honor you by living our lives loved by God and loving others! Miss you so much! less

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August 21, 2021 · via iPhone

It is so hard to believe it has been a year. I think the one thing I remember most about Tim was his faith and his love for his family. He also loved being in Colorado and encouraged and supported our move.
“May God hold you in the palm of his hand... more

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- August 21, 2021

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August 21, 2021 · via iPhone

Hard to believe a year has passed without you. Our family is so greatly blessed to have had you in it. Your love of family, faithfulness in God, and caring heart to all of those around you are what I remember most about you. Thank you for being there on... more

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- August 21, 2021

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August 21, 2021 · via iPhone

It’s hard to believe it has been a year. I have so many wonderful memories of Uncle Tim.
He took Amy and me to our first concert- Amy Grant. Uncle Tim would bring Amy and me out on “dates” to the movies and always stopped at Walgreens before hand... more

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- August 21, 2021

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August 21, 2021 · via iPhone

Remembering Uncle Tim I’ve been thinking about big and little moments. There are so many big moments: moves, holidays, weddings, losses, advice in the right season. But what has been standing out are the little moments. The blink and you’ll miss it... more

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Colleen S Had never heard that story. Thanks for sharing ❤️
- August 21, 2021

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August 20, 2021 · via iPhone

Oddly enough, my first feelings toward Tim were not great ones! You see, I grew up having a huge dirt lot to play in with my brother, then out of no where, we were no longer able to play on our bike track, our four wheeler playground, our sacred piece of... moreOddly enough, my first feelings toward Tim were not great ones! You see, I grew up having a huge dirt lot to play in with my brother, then out of no where, we were no longer able to play on our bike track, our four wheeler playground, our sacred piece of land that could be whatever we wanted from one day to the next! These new “neighbors” were building a house and suddenly it was “their” property, and that didn’t go over super well with me! Then being optimistic my mom encouraged me to have a better attitude and “maybe there will be kids”. So, if that was all I had to hope for I’d hope for that.. well time came, and as you could guess no kids, and MY land that I grew up playing on was taken before my eyes. The new neighbors came over and introduced themselves, Tim and Anne. (Well I guess if we are being fair, I wasn’t a huge fan of you Anne at the beginning either!😉) I can still remember the first day meeting Tim and Anne, that young girl was not happy to be meeting these neighbors who stole her playground but as time passed I learned to soften up a little bit!
Looking back, it still amazes me the incredible impact Tim (and Anne) have made in my life! From giving me my first bible, to baptizing me, to standing beside me, and marrying me and my best friend... in Colorado... in December... outside! My heart is so full thinking of all the time we were blessed to be in Tim’s presence! Tim left behind a legacy, and that legacy is carried out through his family. Boy, he really did the Lords work on this Earth. He passed on his huge heart full of generosity, love, mercy, kindness, grace and so much more to everyone he came in contact with. And how blessed are we to have such an amazing guardian angel watching over so many of us! Although it seemed that the Lord took him way too soon, Tim is not gone! He lives on through his beautiful wife, kids and grandkids. As well as everyone who has came to this site! Tim left behind a legacy, a legacy of God, and that is the best way to leave this Earth.
Anne and fam, we love you all and pray for you often! May the Lord bring you peace and joy in remembering your beloved husband, father and grandfather! May you be comforted and rejoicing of how incredible of a man Tim was and how you have the honor to continue his legacy! Sending all our love!
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Oddly enough, my first feelings toward Tim were not great ones! You see, I grew up having a huge dirt lot to play in with my brother, then out of no where, we were no longer able to play on our bike track, our four wheeler playground, our sacred piece of... more

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August 20, 2021

Over the past year, it’s been a desire of mine to write a eulogy to honor my Dad. With the pandemic surging shortly after his death and time marching on, it seemed like a formal service just wasn’t in the cards for us.

You’d think a year would be... more

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- August 21, 2021
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- August 21, 2021

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August 20, 2021 · via iPhone

Tim, I looked up to you in so many ways. I knew I could always come to you for advice and that you would point me in the right direction. You never once let me down. I think of you everyday and miss you more than words can say. Love you so much.

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Cate Evans Baze We couldn't have made it through the year without you, Uncle Jay. The way you, Auntie Di and Shanny have stepped in and been so extravagant in your love towards our little Jay. You'll never know what that has meant to me this last year. xoxo
- August 20, 2021
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- August 21, 2021

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August 20, 2021

I often think about how every time Jacob and I would walk into Tim & Anne’s office, the first thing he would do was look into MY eyes while asking Jacob how I was doing. LOL! He knew my face would tell the true story :-). It was such a gift. It was so... more

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Colleen S Thanks for sharing these sweet memories! ❤️
- August 21, 2021
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August 20, 2021 · via iPhone

Tim I miss you so much, I have so many memories of you starting from our junior year of high school and on. I’m so blessed to have had you in my life and you will always be in my heart. I love you

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August 20, 2021 · via iPhone

“Mattchew, you are fricken little stud. Get in the car, we are going to get slurpees.”
Uncle Tim was, and is, a hero of mine. He listened to his big heart, fathered an amazing family, and always made me feel special. Every single time I saw him he... more

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Cate Evans Baze He would be so happy for you and Courtney, Matt - cheering you guys on and praying God's best over your marriage - know that we're doing that for you guys in his absence. <3
- August 20, 2021

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August 20, 2021 · via iPhone

“Danny, We’re both 5 years old”. That’s my first memory of my brother Tim explaining to me how we were Irish Twins”, having both been born within a years time. And for every year since then he would remind me on my birthday that we were the... more

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- August 20, 2021
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- August 21, 2021

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August 20, 2021

Dear Anne and family
This past year will most likely be the hardest one to endure Tim’s loss. What a life he lived and how he loved all of you.
It was an honor to know Tim and experience his vitality and yet very sensitive heart and soul. There is a... more

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Cate Evans Baze Love you Mrs. Kubik - we are so grateful for the ways you have loved us over this past year. The day we hiked up to Red Rocks to memorialize my Dad will always be in my heart - thank you for making that morning so special for our family. xoxo
- August 20, 2021

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August 20, 2021 · via iPhone

Tim was such a big presence in our lives. Always ready with encouragement, a prayer, a listening ear, or some kind of joke. This past year I have definitely felt his presence when I faced a difficult situation. We miss you and love you.

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- August 20, 2021
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- August 21, 2021

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August 20, 2021 · via iPhone

Tim radiated love, positivity and encouragement and I am blessed to have had him in my life.
Your light continues to shine brightly Tim. You are forever in my heart.
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Cate Evans Baze xoxo - couldn't have made it through this year without the extravagant love you, Uncle Jay and Shanny have poured out on us....especially to our Jay. We love you guys!
- August 20, 2021
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August 20, 2021 · via iPhone

August 21, 2020, heaven received an amazing Angel. Tim was an awesome brother and I miss him so much. My favorite memory: Each year he would call and wish me a happy birthday and tell me I was “his favorite sister.” Of course I was his ONLY sister... more

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- August 20, 2021
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August 20, 2021 · via iPhone

I miss him greatly… his wisdom, courage, prayers, sense of humor and his friendship. Always a good book to recommend… So grateful to have called him brother and friend.

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August 19, 2021 · via iPhone

Miss and love you so much, Uncle Tim.

Xoxo, Shanny ❤️

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- August 20, 2021
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August 19, 2021

Auntie Anne, Fam and Uncle Tim~
It's hard to believe that a year has passed since you've been called to Heaven. "And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God"--Micah 6:8. It's not... more

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December 24, 2020 · via iPhone

Tim came into a room and treated every single person and couple like they were the biggest treasure. He set a standard of love, and he also raised the standard for what it means to notice and appreciate the people around you. He always made Doug and me... more

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October 1, 2020 · via iPhone

So many memories of Tim come to mind, that I feel it is best for me to write how he made a huge difference in my life, from a broader story-like perspective. I first met Tim in the summer of 2002 when he and his family moved to Pasadena to work as the... more

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September 28, 2020 · via iPhone

My heart goes out to you Anne, and your family... I can not imagine how difficult it was to lose Tim so suddenly! What a pleasure it was to have know this amazing guy... such a loving heart and soul...what ENERGY! While we KNOW coming to The dental... more

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September 28, 2020

I’m writing this to the sons, the daughters, the grandchildren, and the love of Tim Evans’ life. I want to honor the man of integrity that planted seeds of hope in my heart. The man who demonstrated his beliefs and who applied what was promised by... moreI’m writing this to the sons, the daughters, the grandchildren, and the love of Tim Evans’ life. I want to honor the man of integrity that planted seeds of hope in my heart. The man who demonstrated his beliefs and who applied what was promised by his Father. Tim Evans was God’s energizer bunny. He was the man who loved Anne O’Shaughnessy, adored his family, and it was reflected in his life.
The man after God’s own heart endured the cat-calls of the sons of disobedience. Because of his unwavering love for God – seeds of hope were planted in fallow ground to wait for the plow of God’s love to break up that soil. I trusted Tim with the secrets of my soul, the secrets that broke my heart. He, with integrity and no judgment, ministered life to me. There was no condemnation, no rebuke; he just gave the love to me that was given to him. He was not a miser with God's love; he didn't squander it or hoard it away for himself. That is why he had such an abundance of it to give away.
In 2019 I traveled to Denver to renew friendships with friends my late wife and I lost contact with along the way. I made it a point to visit Tim, and he made a point to carve out time for me, in spite of being very busy. We laughed and remembered the short time we spent together, and how all four of us longed to spend more time with each other. But it was not to be – distance, time, and obligations separated us. But for the brief moments, we spent together, the common bond of Jesus’ love and our love for one another was what we enjoyed. Thankfully eternity awaits.
Tim was a good man. Which is something that can only be said of those who learn to love in spirit and in truth. I was wounded in my heart and soul; I had been backslidden for twenty-five years. In that time, when I was in the desert of condemnation, pity, and despair, God was preparing something extraordinary. He set a benchmark before me when I met Tim – this is how you love your wife, God said in His own quiet way. Love her the way you want to love Me. I did not squander that lesson.
Judy and I used Tim and Anne’s book when we taught about marriage in our church years after meeting them. However, we were intimidated by the section on sex, and the group breathed a sigh of relief. We are not all pioneers, blazing new trails. Tim sent me their book ‘Naked,’ and I read a chapter to my wife every night. I would say, "Now for a bedtime story." The practically of what Tim and Anne taught with the traffic light principle and how we were to enjoy the gift of sex, was freedom we didn't know. Because of their ministry – we talked about the delicate things we never talked about. It takes a bold man and a courageous woman to blaze that trail, and I'm glad they did. Our lives were better for it.
The beauty of who was – lives in your heart. If Tim could have such an impact on me, and he and your mother were able to impact my wife and me with the truth of God presented in integrity – then he will live on in all of our hearts. There is no greater testimony to the life of a man than to sense the fragrance of who he was, long after the flower has gone. The residual aroma of this good man was blended with the love of God, and therefore it will endure. I am a better man – having known him.
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September 23, 2020

Auntie and fam, I am still in disbelief and my heart breaks thinking of all of you during this time. When I think of Uncle Tim, I automatically think of JOY and a smile on his face. One of the memories that I have of him is when I visited Colorado with... more

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September 22, 2020

Lauretta and I marvel, even as we grieve, the death of Tim. If ever the saying, “God broke the mold” applied to any man, it applied to Tim. That ruddy face, those mischievous and tender eyes, the big voice inviting all to PARRRTY! – the bigger... more

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September 22, 2020 · via iPhone

One of my favorite things about Tim was his ability to really see me. I remember him sitting at our family kitchen table and we were talking about love languages. But it wasn't what we were talking about, it was how we were talking. Tim was genuinely... more

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September 12, 2020

I had a long road trip and spent the time remembering Tim. Memory after memory cascaded in. Tears eventually came as I was astounded at the depth and breadth of how our marriage was saved and made vibrant through Tim's (And Anne!) steadfast love. No one... more

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September 9, 2020

There are so many cherished memories, I can't even begin to recite them all. Tim pushed everyone around him (figuratively and literally) but it was always in love. The way someone makes you feel is ultimately the legacy you leave behind. Sometimes you... more

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September 8, 2020 · via iPhone

Anne and family - We are stunned and broken hearted by the loss of a truly great man, husband, father, grandfather, spiritual father, mentor, friend and leader. We feel honored to have had our lives cross with Tim during his earthly journey. We gleaned... more

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September 6, 2020 · via iPhone

Many memories of Tim, but one of my favorites took place, oh man, I can’t even remember the year! My mom, Marla Venard, was the office administrator for Lakeland at the time, and I was tagging along with her. Tim was attempting to keep me entertained,... more

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September 6, 2020

In many ways, I am at a complete loss for words here. I am so sorry for all who knew Tim but particularly for Team Evans. Tim was so bigger than life and had a heart that seemed bigger than one human life could contain. I have been praying for Team... moreIn many ways, I am at a complete loss for words here. I am so sorry for all who knew Tim but particularly for Team Evans. Tim was so bigger than life and had a heart that seemed bigger than one human life could contain. I have been praying for Team Evans as they navigate life during this time.

I have been waiting to write something here for a week or so. The news of Tim's passing hit me pretty hard. I know Tim likely didn't feel as close to me as I did to him, but he was a central mentoring/"big brother" role in my life. I could always count on him to speak the truth in love, but at the same time kick me in the ass when I needed it. He never pulled any punches and if he said he would pray, he would pray.

Matter of fact, the last time I texted him was regarding an opportunity I had for a possible change in careers. I sent him a short text about it, and he replied with a short response that he would pray. A week later he sent me a long email with his full insights into the pros and cons of the opportunity. It blew me away! He could have just "prayed" for me, which he did, but he also took time to impart his wisdom because he cared.

From time to time, Tim would mention the impact that Dick Sweatman (sp?) had on his life. I can tell you that Tim is/was my Dick Sweatman. I often bring up Tim in conversations I have with friends and I share the wisdom he imparted to me. Tim was my Schmeaka (sp?) Rabbi. He was a true Chief, and I, like many others, would have followed him into a fire in a heartbeat. He had a heart to impart the wisdom he had to others with a true vision of discipling the next generation. I am grateful that I was a able to receive some of that wisdom and mentoring.

Last, I wanted to share that this last week while going through some old financial statements, my wife Kris, found one of Tim’s famous $2 bills that he would mail out. I was surprised we still had it, and I felt like it was a kiss from the Father to say that Tim will be with me and all of us even in his absence here on earth. I would be happy to mail it if anyone on Team Evans would like it. Otherwise, it will get tucked into one of my Bibles as a reminder to me of my dear friend.

Much love to Team Evans. You have his character and DNA all over you.

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September 6, 2020 · via iPhone

Dearest Anne and all the Evans family,
Anne, you and Tim are some of my most favorite people. The way you usher the peace of God into anxious hearts is one of my first memories of you. The world is a much poorer place today , and heaven so much the... more

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September 5, 2020

Just a couple more photos from the wedding/photobooth

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September 5, 2020

Anne and family, I am so so sorry for your loss. Timmy has been like an extra FD dad/uncle for so long, I can't imagine a world without him in it.
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September 5, 2020 · via iPhone

From the moment I met him, Tim had such an impact on my life. He came into my office as a patient (I’m a physical therapist) about five years ago. As soon as he completed telling me what he was there for, (which I could tell he was skeptical of the... moreFrom the moment I met him, Tim had such an impact on my life. He came into my office as a patient (I’m a physical therapist) about five years ago. As soon as he completed telling me what he was there for, (which I could tell he was skeptical of the physical therapy would be helpful at that point to begin with 🤪), he dove into wanted to know all about me. He cared so deeply for people.

He had already shared that his beautiful bride was waiting in the lobby, that he had four amazing kids, several grandkids and was passionate about his faith and marriage. Tim wore his heart on his sleeve and the openness and fatherly energy I got from him was so tangible.

Little did he know (because I was very intentional about keeping professional and personal worlds separate) that I was in one of the most tumultuous seasons of my life. I had a one-year-old daughter, had recently become a single mom and I was intentionally trying to dive headfirst into a season of healing in my own heart. I had not yet shared or really owned the reality of my story at that point. I was blown away at the prompting of the Holy Spirit to share some aspects with him when he promoted with “so tell me everything about you...are you married...do you have kids...what was your family like growing up…etc.”

Although a bit anxious, there was just something about him and his genuine desire to learn about me (along with his professional experience) that I remember sharing with him some of the reality of what my life looked like. I remember that I shared it in a very matter-of-fact, positive way, with a God honoring focus, but I could tell he saw right through to my hurting heart.

From that day on, he made an intentional effort to walk with me through the journey that I was on. He introduced me to his beautiful bride the waiting room and encouraged me to set up an appointment with her, which truly changed the trajectory of my healing process. It was one of the first steps of healing for me to be able to vulnerably share aspects of my reality that (outside of my family and close friends), I had not exposed or identified with. He could hear my heart and passion for marriage and the devastation that I had since mine had not worked out as I had anticipated.

He instilled hope in me, reminded me who I was and who my father was in heaven was and did it all with a comfort and confidence (but also an incredible humor) that will never be lost on me. He asked me hard questions, clarifying questions and pointed me straight towards Jesus. He had plenty of choice words for my former husband, however he also knew the importance of me walking out forgiveness towards him for my own heart and my role as a mom.

He knew my desire was to open my heart again after the healing process and be married again at some point. He so lovingly and willingly invited me to each marriage conference they had as the only single woman there. I had a deep sense that as a part of my healing process, it was imperative to be there. God was asking me to stretch, recalibrate and grow in that season. Although I felt a bit out of place being unmarried, I also knew once I got there that I was in loving and trusting arms of Tim and Anne. Always met with a massive bear hug and referred to as “Doc“, not for one second did they make me feel like I didn’t belong.

In the several times that I would meet with Anne, he would show up with a brown paper bag with a hotdog and chips for me for lunch, knowing that I would coming coming from work and probably be hungry. And of course a big bear hug. It was exactly the comfort my heart needed as I dove into some heavy heart processing.

Fast forward to attending several marriage gatherings with my future husband and bringing my siblings and their spouses along to meet “the incredible Tim and Anne“, and them being an integral part of my eventual marriage to my now husband Matt, I knew that I had a cheerleader and supporter each step of the way.

I am humbled at how sweetly God used him to care for me, my family and my future. I also know without a shadow of a doubt there are so many others that we are so deeply impacted by Tim’s mission in his life. Tears run down my face as I unpack these sweet memories, but I still can’t help but have a smile on my face as I think of him and all that I knew and experienced him to be.

I can picture the giant bear hug that I envision him giving Jesus as he entered eternity. My heart is with each and every friend and family member who is grieving the loss of him in the absence of his presence and boisterous spirit.

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