"Let the beauty we love be what we do. There are hundreds of ways to kneel and kiss the ground."
-from A Great Wagon, by Rumi
Join us to celebrate Carol and her life by sharing the stories and moments you remember with her. Wear your Home Depot Apron with flair or come in floral with garden-style attire. Share your stories of "Captain Carol" or "Mama boss" or whatever your heart feels compelled to do.
If you could write and share something with us, it would be greatly appreciated. It may be a lyric, poem, verse, or quote that reminds you of Carol or it could be an original poem or short memory of how she lived her life and showed us how to be love.
For example, as her daughter and sometimes a polar opposite personality here is a situation that I recall as a somewhat regular pattern in my life: Mom would see me in my struggle to analyze a situation and try to determine the most effecient way forward, she would say "Just do it, even if it's wrong!". This really would irritate me, but I understand now, that she lived from her heart. She would make decisions for the best of others and consider their heart's desires and needs before analyzing the affect or cost to herself. It may have sometimes seemed wrong to me (or others), but she knew how to live with the certainty of love. She had a faith that didn't expect from others or judge, she just knew how trust and keep going forward.
She was and will remain the truest example of a mother's everpresent love and generosity. She was not afraid to do the hard work, get dirty or learn the lesson the hard way. She was a beautiful person and is still a beautiful soul.
NOTE: Appropriate social distancing and attire (masks) required The venue will be a large outdoor pavillion and will be suitable for inclement weather. Food and drink provided. Please come without concern or need to bring anything but your fond memories of Carol. Pictures and stories welcome!
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OBITUARY
Carol Hewitt Kelley, 74, of Auburn GA, passed away on Wednesday March 17, 2021.Loving mother and constant gardener, she has touched many lives with her joyous heart and generous nature. She is survived by three of her children, Timothy M. Kelley, Christy C. Kelley and Martin H. Kelley.
This is part of a message that our friend Ananth wrote to Christy and copied to me. Both Ananth and Christy have given me permission to share this.
Dear Christy,
I came to know about Carol’s passing today from Murali bhai. I don’t think there are... moreThis is part of a message that our friend Ananth wrote to Christy and copied to me. Both Ananth and Christy have given me permission to share this.
Dear Christy,
I came to know about Carol’s passing today from Murali bhai. I don’t think there are adequate words to console. Carol was such a dear sister and a strong, brave and compassionate soul. I fondly remember so many interactions with her, not to mention all the beautiful meditations we had together. Several times Tim would accompany her and watch us from his corner. To his curious questions about the practice,
she would explain to him so well that Tim gave me one of the best explanations of cleaning -
Yuck out, Light in! This analogy is so effective with many seekers!
Dear Christy, Tim and Martin - I am with you in these days of grief and prayers.
As a student of Heartfulness Meditation, I have had the opportunity to meet not only four remarkable spiritual teachers but also some everyday people who turned out to be amazing human beings. Carol Kelley is one of them.
I try to get to know people... moreAs a student of Heartfulness Meditation, I have had the opportunity to meet not only four remarkable spiritual teachers but also some everyday people who turned out to be amazing human beings. Carol Kelley is one of them.
I try to get to know people who can show me, by their example, how to become the best person that I can be. Carol more than filled the bill. Her heart was so big, her personality so filled with good humor, her appreciation of Life so contagious, her view of humanity so sanguine, that I can only smile when I think of her. And I feel sad that I will not see her any more.
She lived deeply and according to conscience, seeing all her tribulations as part of her connection with God.
I like to think that she loved so much that she used her whole heart up. I have never met an everyday person like that before.
Carol was a person whom not everybody noticed, yet, in her character, she stood out as few people do. less
Carol was a very dear, much beloved friend. She was also one of my favorite people on the planet! Our friendship began way back in the mid 90s, when Carol became one of my very first yoga students. She brought her bubbly personality, great sense of... moreCarol was a very dear, much beloved friend. She was also one of my favorite people on the planet! Our friendship began way back in the mid 90s, when Carol became one of my very first yoga students. She brought her bubbly personality, great sense of humor, and cheerful disposition to these classes, and I fell in love with her almost immediately. Carol and a couple of my other students (who were also real characters) used to crack jokes and cut up during class. They soon became known as the Three Musketeers, and I affectionately called that particular class my “rowdy yoga class”! While it was a far departure from most traditional classes, which exuded an atmosphere of peace and harmony, I absolutely loved it!!! Apparently so did all the other students, as it grew to become one of my largest classes ever! Everyone loved the combination of strength and flexibility work, peaceful relaxation and jovial laughter!
My friendship with Carol deepened, and soon I met the entire family. Carol’s two special needs sons, Tim and Martin, became part of my extended family. Christy, her daughter, soon began attending my yoga classes, and very shortly thereafter both Carol and Christy began practicing Sahaj Marg (alternately called Heartfulness), the heart-centered meditation that had been life-changing for me. Carol continued the practice for the rest of her life, and she often said that Heartfulness had been her lifeline, and the only thing that has kept her going and reasonably sane in the midst of all the chaos and madness of her everyday life.
At two different points in time, I lived with Carol, and even after I moved away from Atlanta, I continued to visit Carol and the family every year. We worked and cooked and cleaned house together, and spent countless hours out in the garden. Carol’s true love was working with plants, and I know her time in the garden was extremely healing for her.
I always marveled at Carol’s ability to remain so cheerful and positive, no matter how difficult the challenges of her everyday life became. She always had a smile on her face, and she was indeed a bright shining light in my life. I loved her so very dearly.
Carol was incredibly kind, genuinely loving, and extremely generous. She always thought of others and how she could help them, before ever considering her own needs. She was truly one of the most heart-centered and loving people I have ever met. I feel that it was a supreme privilege and an honor to have been one of her closer friends.
When I heard about Carol’s heart attack and subsequent open-heart surgery, it hit me like a ton of bricks. Shortly afterwards Christy wrote to us, saying she thought that Carol was at the point where she was choosing which way she wanted to go... to stay here on the Earth plane, or to move on to the Brighter World. My heart was so incredibly saddened at the thought of losing a very dear 25-year-old friendship. But at the same time, I had seen Carol growing more weary and exhausted as the recent years have passed. I knew beyond a shadow of a doubt that she had managed to provide her children with a super-human level of love and care, surely more than fulfilling any duties that she as a soul contracted for in this lifetime. With this in mind, I thought she was more than entitled to make whatever decision felt best for her. We all continued to pray for her highest good, whatever that may be, knowing that in some way, it would be for the highest good of all involved. And if and when she did pass, I could only imagine that she would be met by a host of angels and the entire hierarchy of Heartfulness Masters! But in the meantime, I continued cheering Carol on until the end.
I know I will miss our heart-to-heart talks, and the deep, loving friendship that I have always cherished so much. But at the same time, I know that Carol is now in a place of peace and serenity… a place of great love and light. less
Good bless you Carol, you will be missed. You welcomed me into the Kelley family with open arms and humor. I loved talking to you about your passion for flowers. I have a green thumb like you and Kim and I will plant some Spring flowers in your memory.... moreGood bless you Carol, you will be missed. You welcomed me into the Kelley family with open arms and humor. I loved talking to you about your passion for flowers. I have a green thumb like you and Kim and I will plant some Spring flowers in your memory. Love and Memories! RJ less
When Carol texted me from the hospital she talked more about her children than anything else. She just wanted to make sure they were okay. I only met Carol’s vivacious spirit once in person. At a class in my home she regaled us all with her bright and... moreWhen Carol texted me from the hospital she talked more about her children than anything else. She just wanted to make sure they were okay. I only met Carol’s vivacious spirit once in person. At a class in my home she regaled us all with her bright and cheerful socks. That gives you a taste of how her bright and cheerful heart was her signature. As we connected frequently over text and email, me living on the West Coast made this necessary, I learned to love her frank and Ernest demeanor. I knew I could always count on her to tell me the truth of how she was feeling. I know that Carol lives within all of our hearts and I am so grateful that she is a part of mine! 💖 less
I remember Aunt Carol’s smile and her laugh. She was always so sweet, patient and kind. I remember all the Easter holidays we spent at the house on Clack Rd. The kids would all have to stay inside with the curtains drawn while the adults would hide... moreI remember Aunt Carol’s smile and her laugh. She was always so sweet, patient and kind. I remember all the Easter holidays we spent at the house on Clack Rd. The kids would all have to stay inside with the curtains drawn while the adults would hide eggs all around the yard. Then they’d open the door & the kids would run out like crazy to find the eggs. It was always so much fun! less
My memory and feeling of Carol is that she loved a good time. When I saw her, she lived the line, “Have fun, make fun, be fun.” I am honored that she spent some of her time, energy, and attention to hold me and my partner in her heart and wish us well.
Christy KelleyAt mom's celebration of life today, I learned from Cosette's mother (Kendall) that their dog Ranger passed away about a month ago then her Great grandmother Nina just before Aunt Carol. Cosette was at least grateful to know that they would be together in... moreAt mom's celebration of life today, I learned from Cosette's mother (Kendall) that their dog Ranger passed away about a month ago then her Great grandmother Nina just before Aunt Carol. Cosette was at least grateful to know that they would be together in heaven and that Aunt Carol would look after Ranger and feed him sweet potatoes.
I received this kind remembrance from a friend by email:
"I feel grateful to have witnessed Carol’s joyful essence, smile and heartfelt resilience over the years during our interaction in Molena and other gatherings. I was touched by her nurturing... moreI received this kind remembrance from a friend by email:
"I feel grateful to have witnessed Carol’s joyful essence, smile and heartfelt resilience over the years during our interaction in Molena and other gatherings. I was touched by her nurturing love for family and constant delight playing in the dirt, sowing and spreading seeds of nature. May His peace embrace dear Christy, Tim and Martin."
Affectionately,
Bill Monroe
Thank you, Bill, much gratitude for the memory you share and the images it brings to my mind of working in the garden in Molena with mom, brothers and my extended family of Heartful brothers and sisters. less
I still can hear your wonderful laugh in my mind......I met Carol at work in the early 90's we became instant friends, she was so easy that way. Carol was such a genuine and caring soul. I believe Carol will be a angel in heaven because she was one here... moreI still can hear your wonderful laugh in my mind......I met Carol at work in the early 90's we became instant friends, she was so easy that way. Carol was such a genuine and caring soul. I believe Carol will be a angel in heaven because she was one here ❤. I love and will miss you Carol. My deepest sympathy to Christy, Tim and Martin less
I met Carol and her sons at the Molena ashram in Georgia several times. She always had a smile and radiance on her face. A very loving soul. Our prayers for Kelly, Tim and Martin.
I met Carol at a conference in NC back in 1998, and we had an immediate, joyful connection. On my return to Australia, I stopped over at Clack Road, and that was the beginning of a long friendship. Over the years, we kept in close contact, despite being... moreI met Carol at a conference in NC back in 1998, and we had an immediate, joyful connection. On my return to Australia, I stopped over at Clack Road, and that was the beginning of a long friendship. Over the years, we kept in close contact, despite being distanced by oceans. Carol had the most beautiful heart. Her kindness, compassion and love shone out from her, and will live on in all those she touched. May her soul fly free, unhindered by the boundaries of life, and become part of the stars that illuminate us. Farewell Carol, you will be remembered with so much love. Loving condolences to Christy, Tim and Martin. 💗 less
Lisa TienkenI still can hear her laugh in my mind.... I met Carol at work 35 plus years ago and we became friends instantly she was so easy to like. I have never known a more kinder genuine person then her. Carol always put the well being of others ahead of her own... moreI still can hear her laugh in my mind.... I met Carol at work 35 plus years ago and we became friends instantly she was so easy to like. I have never known a more kinder genuine person then her. Carol always put the well being of others ahead of her own and I know she will be a angel in heaven because she was one here. I love you Carol and my deepest sympathy to Christy, Tim and Martin
It's been several years since I have seen Carol, though these photos bring to life what I recognize as her spirit...the joy and love that flowed through her heart to all, the twinkle of her eyes and the sound of her jovial laugh. As my grandmother would... moreIt's been several years since I have seen Carol, though these photos bring to life what I recognize as her spirit...the joy and love that flowed through her heart to all, the twinkle of her eyes and the sound of her jovial laugh. As my grandmother would say, she was "salt of the earth".
Love and blessings to Christy, Tim and Martin. less
Janet Hicks
These are some wonderful pictures of Carol. They capture her spirit. She always had a smile on her face, laughter in her eyes and so much love in her heart. She will be missed.
Carol took us to Cumberland Island - one of my first visits. Christy, Carol and I walked waaayyy down the beach. We ran into Carol R in her jeep and she gave us a ride back to camp. Wonderful trip!