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更新捐款如下，我代表母亲和全家感谢各位朋友的爱心！

季德深、苏文夫妇 ¥2,000
追思会捐款 $1,120 (CAD)
追思会捐款 $20
83中71级五班 ¥7,000
路弟兄 $200
李海东 $200
Zhihong Chen $100
陈纬 $200
汪农 $200
王冲 $200
Xiaofan Lin $100
Liang Wang $100
赵怡 ¥1,000
曾鸣 $50
徐明 ¥1,000
ZBoTian $83
龚霄雁 ¥3,000

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感谢各位朋友的捐款，有部分朋友是通过微信直接捐款，现在已经超过三千美金。下面把所有捐款朋友列表如下，我代表我母亲和家人表示衷心的感谢！

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January 1, 2019

此文原为徐老师追思会所写, 很遗憾最后未能成行, 特将文字贴在此处以哀悼我们敬重的徐老师

王冲 (八十三中八二届三班)

Zhang A-Yi (张阿姨), MingGang, MingQiang
On behalf of several very close high school... more此文原为徐老师追思会所写, 很遗憾最后未能成行, 特将文字贴在此处以哀悼我们敬重的徐老师

王冲 (八十三中八二届三班)

Zhang A-Yi (张阿姨), MingGang, MingQiang
On behalf of several very close high school friends of MingQiang who couldn't be here, please allow me to express our deepest sympathy and condolences to you and all the family members. We are here being with you and supporting you. We are so sorry for your loss, but it is also a loss to all of us, his students.
When MingQiang told me of Xu LaoShi’s (徐老师) passing the other day, I was shocked since I knew he was healthy enough to go back to China in 2017 and visited his old colleagues in Xian, which was just a year ago. Then there were so many thoughts and memories that raced through my head. Just like many of you, I thought about the last time I saw him. It was exactly 19 years ago when MingQiang invited us over to their Toronto's home for Christmas. Xu LaoShi and Zhang A-Yi were so kind and insisted that we stayed in their bedroom, for which my wife and I still feel un-eased whenever we recall it. I also immediately had all kinds of images in my mind of Xu LaoShi teaching in the class, speaking on the stage to all students, and particularly the smile on his face when the gang of us went to your home, bugging MingQiang with high school boys' stuff.
It’s quite easy for me to stand up here and proclaim that every person who ever had Xu LaoShi as a teacher will tell you that he was the absolute best and most well-respected teacher there ever was at our school. It’s easy for me to say this because I was sitting in his class, because I’ve been hearing it consistently from the time even before I was in school through today, 36 years after I left school, whenever you meet and talk with alumnus either you know or you don't know. That consensus is loud and clear.
To me, Xu LaoShi was not only my teacher, my best friend's dad, he was a mankind that devoted himself in helping his students succeed and influencing the future life of his students with his energy, intelligence, and enthusiasm. I remembered in the summer of 1982 when we took the nation-wide qualification test, on that particular day for physics test, we were standing outside waiting for bell ringing to enter the test room. Xu LaoShi came over and pointed to an example in the text book, saying "you guys take a look at this example and refresh your memory". We did and guess what, when we went into the room and opened up the paper, the question was actually in the test.
I have always been wondering, without that last minute remind, could I fail that test or I might not get the score I needed to qualify the college I finally went to. Then, I won't be working on what I am working on now, I won't be living as I am living today. Xu LaoShi was such a great teacher that he was so dedicated and committed to his duty, to his students, taking this last chance to give his students a final push, hoping they could jump over the fence or open the giant gate in front of them for their bright future. Throughout his life, how many of these reminds, advices actually happened and thereafter impacted and changed someone's life without knowing.
These days, our classmates shared a lot of sympathy thoughts in WeChat. One of them wrote, she still remembered that Xu LaoShi walked her across the street, helped her get the taxi going home. After forty years, what we learned back then in the classroom might have already faded away. But those short and touching moments still remain in our memory, and will keep us remembering him as a great teacher, advisor, and most importantly an influencer. So no matter how respectful a school president he was . . . no matter how strict and how kind he was with us as students . . . and no matter how much he loved his physics classes that he so tirelessly and expertly taught to so many of us . . . Xu LaoShi influenced each and every one of us in many more different ways such that we can never, ever accurately or fully explain with the mere tools of these Earthly written words . . .
. . . only a heavenly based language is capable of conveying that message . . .to which we will leave in God's hand. less

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Mingqiang Xu 王冲，谢谢你的感言，给了我对父亲更多的了解！我父亲的确很热爱教师职业，也此为乐。
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徐老师是一位非常优秀和认真的老师。我一直还记得他讲课和做实验的情景。徐老师课后对学生的问题也是耐心回答，虽然过去有三十年了，还是历历在目。
这次刚好路过温哥华，有机会参加徐老师告别仪式，也是对师生缘的一个交代。
徐老师一路走好，在天堂喜乐，安好。

李海东，附中89级

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Mingqiang Xu 昨天很有幸见到海东，互联网时代信息传播促成你此行，感谢你出席父亲的追思会！
- January 1, 2019

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December 31, 2018

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下面是我在今天父亲追思会上的发言

爱在行动不在言语 -... more

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Xudong Lu 今天仔细阅读了明强兄在徐伯伯的追思会上的发言，非常感动。
明强兄从不同的角色：兄长/丈夫/教师/父亲/基督徒，来回顾了徐伯伯的点点滴滴，让我看到“爱在行动不在言语”more
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December 31, 2018

周云生（交大附中64）， 2018.12.30

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Mingqiang Xu 记得我父亲在我问他问题的时候，他会解释一个关键点，或者是我的盲点，然后让我自己独立再去想。久而久之，对我自学能力培养很有帮助。
- January 1, 2019

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December 31, 2018

敬爱的徐老师就要离开我们远行了。多么地不愿意离开他啊！
他不仅仅是我们的老师，他还是我们灵魂的领路人。他那高尚的人格魅力与如星华般灿烂的才华；光耀并温暖了每一位与他交集过的人们。
为人师表、厚德载物，我们的恩师永远与我们同在！
他的音容笑貌已永远地镌刻在了我们的心里！

杨春（铣）（秋尘）2018.12.31

徐老师离开我们了。他那高尚的品格，精湛的教育艺术，和蔼可亲的身影将被永远铭记。

郭长明 2018-12-31

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Mingqiang Xu 谢谢各位同学的唁言，我小时候被父亲带到八十三中实验室，我在玩耍的时候，他花很多时间准备实验。原来认为这是他的责任心，现在看来他就是以教书育人为乐，在备课、教课、辅导的时候，他是最放松的、最没有烦恼和喜乐的。
- January 1, 2019

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至今还清晰记得徐老师在他家中辅导我学习高年级内容，参加物理竞赛的情景，下面的一张老照片更是使一切历历在目。他的悉心教导对附中物理学科及竞赛的优秀成绩起了重大作用。徐老师一路走好，在此也向他的家人表示慰问。

林晓帆 2018年岁末

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Mingqiang Xu 我在高中的时候（1980-1982）没有物理竞赛，很羡慕您可以参加竞赛。
- January 1, 2019

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December 30, 2018

去年九月份，我们老交大附中在上海的部分同学还一起和徐新符老师及师母欢聚！
徐老师精神矍铄，状态很好，还赋诗一首，念给大家听。
没想到徐老师今已驾鹤西去，还希望师母及家人都节哀保重！
徐老师品德高尚，师恩难忘，桃李天下，在天堂亦能安享宁静！

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Mingqiang Xu 谢谢分享这些照片，你们相聚让我父母喜乐满溢
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December 30, 2018

我们是交大附中高六四级一班的部分同学。在校期间，徐新符老师给我们教授高三的物理课程。
所发去的一些同学的悼念，有郭长秦，安琏，韓素琪(平安)，沈蓉蓉(多彩人生)，张桂芳，张波(大海波涛)，李伯旬(神鹿子伯)，王华瑞，盖曼琳，雷福顺，叶雯

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张致和倪原芷， 2018.12.28

刘夏，太意外了，不久前他回来还和我们聚会了一次，不料这竟然成了和他的最后見面，请你和沈明安等同学一定转告我和倪老师对徐老师的哀悼，并向他夫人张老师及其他家人表示慰问。

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Mingqiang Xu 谢谢您的问候，我母亲很好、暂时的离别（我们家都是基督徒，相信将来会再见）总有不舍，然而我父亲临终平安祥和地安息，给我们很大的安慰。再次感谢！
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December 30, 2018

83中5班同学与徐老师相聚西安

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Mingqiang Xu 可以看出父亲和同学们聚会非常开心。他平时很少这样畅怀大笑。因同学们的陪伴，他生命之曲中快乐的乐章，感谢你们！
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December 30, 2018

以下是原西安市83中五班（1969-1972）同学的部分留言。徐老师曾任我们的班主任，他为人师表，德才兼备，影响了我们每一人的方方面面，我们对他有特殊的感情。
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彭若鸣，... more以下是原西安市83中五班（1969-1972）同学的部分留言。徐老师曾任我们的班主任，他为人师表，德才兼备，影响了我们每一人的方方面面，我们对他有特殊的感情。
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彭若鸣， 2018.12.27
老师毕竟永远是老师，尤其中学阶段的班主任。可惜我们退休年龄了，徐老师们更老了，加上不在一地住，见面极其有限。但自数年前经晓安同学联络，徐老师每回上海都来电话，自然相见一敬。
最后一次是去年国庆节前夕，我去浦东丁香路(其孩家)看望。老师和师母健康如常，笑容可掬，聊了一会，他儿子(微软中国区高管)同学(自然也是交大附中校友)来家探望，徐老师还自毫地介绍了五班同学。
我该回了，徐老师坚持下楼，非送到小区门口。望着老师背影，我心绪难定，拍下此照。我本等待，等待今年徐老师回沪(或许春节前后又得信息)，然而今悉此噩耗，翻出此照片，谁知竟成最后的背影！此时真是泪水盈眶。

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魏淑萍， 2018.12.28
谢谢:沈晓安同学的深情转告，并非常感谢你在老师生病和重病期间，经常看望，关心与帮助，同样，也会转达五班同学对老师的怀念，太感谢你替我们想做而做不到的事，让老师在生前能感受到同学的深情和暖意，而感到欣慰！
我是早上发图片问侯，突然惊悉徐老师病逝，我们最敬爱的徐老师，突然离我们而去，我含泪言表。
是的，同学们只所以热爱和称赞与悼念我们的老师，崇拜徐老师为人师表，教学严谨，工作一丝不苟，对同学和蔼可亲，是学校物理老师中的佼佼者。我们不曾忘，徐老师是我们颇具威信的班主任，将一个54名同学的大班，治理的秩序井然，紊条不乱，使我五班在全校名列前茅，彰显出他不仅教学有章，而领导有方，他的师风师德，使同学们折服，使我钦佩，崇拜而敬仰！而给我们中学阶段留下深刻影响，一段美好终身难忘的回忆。相遇这么完美，优秀的徐老师是五班同学的荣幸和骄傲！另外，得知孩子们非常出色，来自徐老师的言传身教。
可遗憾的是，我失去了最后一次与老师团聚的机会，那次，竟然不知，夲想下次吧，谁料，成了终身遗憾！更遗憾的是，我们身处异国他乡，最后的时刻却不能为敬爱的徐老师悼念和送行，再也见不到他老人家，想到这，眼泪流下，写不下去了，幸亏朱翠兰，房秀峰发的老师的照片和全班合影，看到老师生前体魄健康，微笑灿烂，容颜从容，彭若鸣拍的背影是那么挺拔。当我翻看到五班同学在纷纷表示莫大哀痛，热泪又一次淌下，就是这样反复写写停停，写不下去待会再写，说你们可能不信，从早写至现在，中午饭都是老公买回热凉皮，含着泪才写完，因此，祈祷姗姗来迟，千言万语都在其中，此时此刻，以悲痛化作祈祷，愿敬爱的徐老师您一路走好！愿您在天堂安息！并拜托晓安同学，在悼念徐老师的葬礼上，代表全体五班同学，给徐老师献上花圈，以寄托同学们的哀思！徐老师，五班同学永远缅怀您！
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沈俭：徐老师是我们一生中遇到的好老师，今驾鹤西去，万分悲痛，老师一路走好！
华庆一：想起去年恩师还与我们相聚，匆匆一别竟是永别……徐老师天堂安息！一路走好！
杨建福：沉痛哀悼尊师徐老先生，先生在天之灵安息吧。惊悉徐老师驾鹤西去，愿老师一路走好。
朱翠兰：@晓安，谢谢你的关心和转达。徐老师是我们的班主任、也是我们称颂的物理老师。他言传身教、秉公处事、我从心里崇敬他，愿徐老师一路走好……
林碧娜：我曾心中疑惑久没见徐老师的佳作，心里想过是否身体欠佳，今天...，深表痛心，愿老师走好！
杨春纤：致以深深地哀悼！

沈晓安，郭长明，刘兵，马云，王宪，王晓菁，施燕萍，曹正元，顾正华。孙雅贤，杨新民，朱亚芳，徐仁康，齐爱中，刘夏，周可夫，谢少飞，周成兰，梁双喜，杨雨龙，王浩西，梅子…. :
徐老师的音容笑貌，给我们上课时的情景，学生时代老师的尊尊教诲历历在目，真的是让人难以忘怀。愿老师一路走好。望徐师母节哀，保重身体。
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