The Rauf family created a GatheringUs memorial to celebrate the life of Aishah Rauf. Collecting your stories and memories here will offer us great comfort. To respect Aishah's Islamic beliefs, her burial will happen on a quick timeline. We don't want to exclude any of her loved ones and co-workers, but we ask... see moreThe Rauf family created a GatheringUs memorial to celebrate the life of Aishah Rauf. Collecting your stories and memories here will offer us great comfort. To respect Aishah's Islamic beliefs, her burial will happen on a quick timeline. We don't want to exclude any of her loved ones and co-workers, but we ask that we are given time to grieve, collect, and organize our remembrances. Thank you for contributing to this lasting memorial. In lieu of flowers please send a donation to Durham Rescue Mission at https://durhamrescuemission.org/ways-to-help/donate/.
Aishah was more than a colleague to me, she was a dear friend. She was living proof of how genuine and warm a person can be. She was kind and caring, yet these are just a few of the qualities that I will remember her for. My fondest memories of her are... moreAishah was more than a colleague to me, she was a dear friend. She was living proof of how genuine and warm a person can be. She was kind and caring, yet these are just a few of the qualities that I will remember her for. My fondest memories of her are our discussions on family trip adventures and her suggestions of places to visit. She was a much better advisor than TripAdvisor. I will not forget our memorable trip to the beach. This will always be a reminder of the fun loving and strong spirited person you were. I celebrate you on your birthday today. Aisha was also a devoted and loving mother to her daughters, Saraah and Malika and my prayers go out to them for the big loss. Rest in Peace dear friend. I miss you. My condolences to the family. Love, Rosebella. less
Aishah was a model employee at Carolina Meadows. She was well loved by everyone she came into contact with--residents, family members and colleagues. Comfort and blessings to the family.
I remember Aishah as a warm, supportive and kind colleague when we worked together in the Fairways. She embodied a calming influence and always carried a smile on her face. She will be missed tremendously but her life will be forever present in the lives... moreI remember Aishah as a warm, supportive and kind colleague when we worked together in the Fairways. She embodied a calming influence and always carried a smile on her face. She will be missed tremendously but her life will be forever present in the lives she touched.
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In our line of work we expect to have to say goodbye to many, but never think it will be our friends and coworkers. It was an honor to work with and know Aishah. People like her don't come around often - someone who loved and lived as fully as she did.... moreIn our line of work we expect to have to say goodbye to many, but never think it will be our friends and coworkers. It was an honor to work with and know Aishah. People like her don't come around often - someone who loved and lived as fully as she did. The world won't be quite the same without her, but may we try to spread the same peace and love she so flawlessly did. To all of the people who love Aishah, I am so sorry for the pain you're experiencing. Her spirit and light will always be with you. less
Michelle PoolerThe pier photo was of our first beach trip with residents and Aishah was all smiles flying a kite. It's my favorite photo of her. The other was a fun snow day at work. We know she wasn't going to drive in it, but it was fun to see her enjoy playing in... moreThe pier photo was of our first beach trip with residents and Aishah was all smiles flying a kite. It's my favorite photo of her. The other was a fun snow day at work. We know she wasn't going to drive in it, but it was fun to see her enjoy playing in the snow for a minute.
It was my privilege to know Aishah when my mother was a resident of the memory unit at Carolina Meadows. Aishah exemplified all of the best traits one could hope for in a caregiver. She was one of the kindest people I've known, with a lovely spirit,... moreIt was my privilege to know Aishah when my mother was a resident of the memory unit at Carolina Meadows. Aishah exemplified all of the best traits one could hope for in a caregiver. She was one of the kindest people I've known, with a lovely spirit, appreciation for nature, and gentle sense of humor. Her genuine warmth and unflappable attitude were tremendously reassuring to families entrusting their loved ones to her care. This grateful daughter can only imagine the tremendous loss your family must feel. Blessings to you all.
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I am so sorry for you loss, Ms Aishah was a wonderful, kind spirited person who always had a calming way about her. Anytime I had the chance to work with her or talk to her, she would always have a gentle smile and good advise. I am so glad she walked... moreI am so sorry for you loss, Ms Aishah was a wonderful, kind spirited person who always had a calming way about her. Anytime I had the chance to work with her or talk to her, she would always have a gentle smile and good advise. I am so glad she walked this earth and our paths crossed. She will be greatly missed by me and all that have known her. In this difficult time I hope and pray for strength for all her family members, thank you all for sharing Aishah with us.
Saarah you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. I remember seeing your mother at CM but also back when we were in high school/our graduation. She was such a beautiful spirit and was always smiling anytime I saw her. God bless
My deepest sympathy to Aishah’s family. Her spirit lives on in my memory of her warm smile and helpful manner. I hope her love of all of you and her kindness gives you comfort at this difficult time. I miss her.
Bertha Williams
Aishah had an amazing calming, peaceful and loving presence - coupled with strength, dignity and style. This was felt by all who were lucky enough to be around her. I hope her daughters/family know how much she was loved at Carolina Meadows by her... moreAishah had an amazing calming, peaceful and loving presence - coupled with strength, dignity and style. This was felt by all who were lucky enough to be around her. I hope her daughters/family know how much she was loved at Carolina Meadows by her co-workers and residents. Many of us gathered today to share stories and support each other and our community in our grief.
Although Aishah and I did not work directly together, we connected and I feel blessed and honored to have been her friend. I continue to hold Aishah as an inspiration in how I want to live and more importantly, how I want to be in the world. Sending love to her daughters, family and friends. less
Ms. Aishah as I call her was a Mother and a True friend. She had a wonderful heart and always easy to talk to. I will wait for her to go for events at work and even just hang out for lunch. She knew all the places to hand out, the good food and always... moreMs. Aishah as I call her was a Mother and a True friend. She had a wonderful heart and always easy to talk to. I will wait for her to go for events at work and even just hang out for lunch. She knew all the places to hand out, the good food and always buys and wears the most Quality Clothing. She was a "Lady with style”. It's so hard to say goodbye .I wasn't expecting to lose my Dear Friend a month after losing my Dad. She called me to express her condolences. I don’t know how to break this to my Daughter just after telling her Grandpa is no more. All I can say is that my Dad left before My Friend and He will take care of Her or they will take care of each other till we all meet again. I will forever miss you and nothing can replace you in my Heart. I will hold on to the good memories and the lovely pictures we share together. I will read your messages over and over again; just that there won't be any new messages from you anymore like "I'm on my way to your office or are you ready for Lunch " Hmm, It is well! Rest in Peace my FRIEND! LOVE always Diana! less
Aishah meant so much to me. When I first started as a Med Tech in the Green she trained me and I learned so much from her. I worked with her for two years. I moved to a different department but we remained friends. I cherished Aishah so much and will... moreAishah meant so much to me. When I first started as a Med Tech in the Green she trained me and I learned so much from her. I worked with her for two years. I moved to a different department but we remained friends. I cherished Aishah so much and will never forget her. Especially her smile, laugh and sense of humor. The last time I saw Aishah was for a day trip to the beach. It meant the world to me that she went. She loved the beach and was so happy that day. That's how I see her now. Smiling, walking on the beach with her feet in the water, the sun shining on her face. I will miss her tremendously and am so thankful she was part of my life.
For her daughters I am so sorry. Your mom was a bright spot for me. I am thinking of you during this time and the days to come. Sending all my love. less
Aishah was the reflection of the word grace. Her beautiful calm strength is a blessing to our staff and residents. Her spirit continues to be how we all want to care for others and our community.
May the care and love of those around you provide... moreAishah was the reflection of the word grace. Her beautiful calm strength is a blessing to our staff and residents. Her spirit continues to be how we all want to care for others and our community.
May the care and love of those around you provide comfort and peace to get you through the days ahead. Please accept my most sincere and heartfelt condolences. - with love
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